kerm1tkerm1t Forum Posts (5)

RE: Describe yourself in one word

Disappointed blues

RE: If you were rich and single how would you get someone to marry you not for your money?

Look, everyone says money can't buy happiness, or love, they come from other things.....
Money just buys things, ergo, money CAN buy them.. Don't blame me, I'm just passing on something that someone else said. Blame Ellen Degeneress

RE: '' I believe that people should put forth an effort to look nice on a profile''

I think it's funny that you are commenting on profile photos when a quick look at yours, shows 2 out of focus photos that in no way resemble your main photo (which looks like it was taken a few years ago), and the other 2 are of animals. confused

I agree with the post about glass houses, and I certainly think that photo's should reflect what you currently look like.


If you stage a photo, it's not really who you are. If a guy posts a scruffy photo, like mine, chances are, this is how he looks most of the time.

The perfect relationship just doesn't exist.

Well, as for the ex, she pretty much admitted that she only married me for my ability to father a child. That happened today while I was doing my weekly video chat with my 15 month old.

She lived through the tv basically.confused dunno doh

The perfect relationship just doesn't exist.

Having just finished with my divorce, yes I was the dumpee, not dumper, it occurs to me that people need a bit of a reality check.

THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP.

Ladies, and other women, learn to be realsitic in your expectations of a relationship. I have read so many profiles of people saying they are not going to settle for anything but the best. Good luck I say to you, enjoy your singlehood, it'll last a long time.

Dawson does not exist, neither does Chandler, Ross, or anyone else that you see on the celluloid screen, and are using as your benchmark for what you are looking for.

During my seven year marriage, I was constantly compared to those previous guys, why couldn't I come up with the perfect speech to solve any problem. Why wasn't I the strong silent type that was also in touch with my feelings, and could pre-empt any situation that arose and solve it before it happened.

Everyone that is over 25 on this site, and every other dating site needs to realise one thing, we are all damaged at this point, otherwise why would we be here? You can use any excuse you like: I'm too busy, I don't have time.
While there are some people on here that really are wasting their time, most of us, regardless of if we fit your picture perfect view, are exactly what you are looking for.

We are all here for the same reason, to find a good relationship, and at this stage of our lives, that's all we should hope for. A good relationship is just that, good, it's not great, it's not perfect, it helps us when we need it, and gives us what we need.

So please, for all of us average people out there who would love nothing more than coming home at the end of the day and falling into your loving arms, and spending time enjoying you and the things we do together, realise that there is no Mr or Ms right/perfect, but there is close enough.

Now, feel free to tear me apart.

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