Just fel like posting something as I write quite a lot but very rarely let anyone read anything to receive feedback - I even avoided both books which my poetry was published in and didn't tell anyone about it so they couldn't read it lol!
Everyone deserves the chance to fly, to soar high above the woes of every day. To float without regret, beyond the tough and toil of our way. Everyone deserves a chance to lift, high above the seas with open wings. To shed feathers of many beautiful colours and let go of many pointless, empty things. Yes, my son, everyone deserves the chance to fly, To leave this hapless life without a care. And one day soon you will see the clouds amist, and you will never doubt again your own affair.
I agree that one of the most important elements to attraction is someones peronalitty, it doesn't matter how beautiful you are, ugly on the inside will always shine through.
But there does have to be an element of physical attraction, I have dated men who I was not physically attracted to based on their personalitty and it doesn't work.
Most importantly for me, I can't be with someone who doesn't see me. What I mean by that is that I have several personalities i show to certain people and don't show myself right off the bat, if they can't see past the show I put on and delve a little deeper, I know it wont last.
They also have to be able to laugh at themselves and take a joke, I can't stand people who take every joke as a personal attack.
And NO and I mean absolutely NO drama, if he causes drama, he causes me to leave!
This was mine and my ex-fioncee's song, we were driving around gib the day we moved in together and as we pulled up to the lighthouse, the song played and it was really sweet and romantic... he then also played this song at my birthday and danced with me and played it when he proposed...
But because of how it ended, the song now has negative feelings for me and I would never use it for anyone else....
We have a strict dress code at work, the women have to wear smart skirts and shirts so I wear stockings and suspenders on a daily basis, which kind of takes the fun out of them....
Then you need to decide what is more important to you, the risk of telling her and having her feel differently and change towards you... or maybe feeling the same and starting something new, but also slightly scary together
--or--
Not telling her, not taking the chance but maintaining a frienship you obviously value.
once you know the answer to whats more important, you knwo what you have to do :)
Not exactly the same situation but it is essentially the same, when you want something you can't have, the chase can make the ideal seem even sweeter but at the end of the day, it's always going to be a chase, if she thinks you are joking (Or is acting in a manner that leads you to believe she does) perhaps it is best to keep it that way?
If you are really serious then talk to her about it, away from everyone else, sit her down and tell her you feel, if nothing else, by getting it off your chest you will know where you stand and if she is a good a friend as you think, she will let you down gently if she is not interested...
Either way you can't hang in limbo forever, you're either gonna have to jump, or forget what you feel and move on...
Honestly, it sounds as though she is only interested in a can't have you kind of way... especially since you mentioned you were both drunk when anything happened.
If the girl is a lesbian it is unlikely that you are going to change her mind and her insistence to you that she likes girls when you get close sounds like a friendly warning to back off...
You need to be careful because if she isn't interested you could end up losing her as a friend as well.
You need to go and find someone more appropriate as this wont be going anywhere...
I love being a single parent, personally I think if there's a choiuce between going it alone and raising your child the right way or fighting every day of their life to keep someone there who doesn't want to be, the choice should be a no-brainer.
I have a bond with my daughter that I would not change for the world and she always comes first!
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Thanks you guys :)Just fel like posting something as I write quite a lot but very rarely let anyone read anything to receive feedback - I even avoided both books which my poetry was published in and didn't tell anyone about it so they couldn't read it lol!