Of course not, i put everything i had into an apartment she picked 8kms away from her mother, i moved 60km to there. She could not handle being out of the family home and had a break down or somethin so i let her go and done my best to keep it going alone but couldnt. I was independant before and am now again. I see now they ruin men for fun. Just hopin they aint comin back to try fleece me again!
Bit late now when she left me in the lurch without a car or a penny cos she took d lot and near homeless too. Just before xmass. I cannot stand dat woman!
Ok just want some thoughts and opinions on a weird thing that happened over the last couple of days and thanks in advance:) Iv been split from my ex fiance for the last yr and a half now her decision. Bad split where they tried ruin me with rumours after she was the abusive one. Friday i got a friend request off my exes nieces boyfriend or ex i didnt even bother to ask but i didnt accept. He is a good kid though he might still hang out with the drugs crowd and i got a little worried about him so i sent him "Whats up kiddo" instead of share my info wit him as iv long moved on. He replied Nothing what are you at"? Told him "doin this and that here and there" and asked was he doin tattoos or hairdressin still. He said he was around his village and hoped to do more during the summer. Anyway after i gave him some advice that its a bad idea iv been there done that there are too many freelance working at it he just disappeared, i mean we were never really close why this out of the blue if he didnt really wanna talk to me?????
There is no work over here, i had a couple of days b4 she left but it dried up. Transport is now the problem as i sold my bike to get her the apartment, i bought her a car and put it in her name for insurance purposes and she took that. I now live in the country but am trying to get cash together for a new place in the city but i doubt there is much work there either but more of a chance of finding something.
Eaglewoman, my friends say im paranoid but some are aware of whats goin on, my family are aware because i had to let them know about people driving past the house. I dont know what they are planning next but some of their cousins are known for stabbngs etc so i hae to watch my back!
Yes i reckon so, they are too absorbed with drugs, drink and fighting amongst themselves to be on the internet looking on this. people have walked away from them and turned on them over this too. trueblue 86, i had a life, 4 dogs. apartment and everything i wanted but was scammed out of it all which is my fault i know but with no work or anything here now it is hard to find my feet again paying off debts she left me with whilst she just went back to her old life and doesnt care.
I am currently pretending to live in Tenerife for my parents protection as they sent people down which is an hours drive from them, but have heard they are saving to take a trip there, once they discover im not there they will be on the hunt again. they want the money from the fraud but i have decided iv taken enough and stand up for myself and be on the right side of the law instaed of being played to their will now its over for me as a relationship or even friendship!
I am currently pretending to live in Tenerife for my parents protection as they sent people down which is an hours drive from them, but have heard they are saving to take a trip there, once they discover im not there they will be on the hunt again. they want the money from the fraud but i have decided iv taken enough and stand up for myself and be on the right side of the law instaed of being played to their will now its over for me as a relationship or even friendship!
I have walked away, it is over. she was a major drain on my rescources and time and left me bankrupt and nearly homeless at christmas of all times. but am worried due to all the drug related deaths recently i am still worried about her. I have peace in my life since i got away from her people but they are following me trying to find out where i go on nights out etc. they have even travelled to all my favourite bars asking questions and spreading rumours. it is hard not to look over my shoulder.
She told me she wanted children, told me she had been off the pill for 3 months so it was my fault she was not prergnant! Her pill was on top of her bag which she left open one morning while in d bathroom! I was not drug dealing her brother was, i am anti drug i dont take or sell! Ididnt want her on drugs but she was using with her friends behind my back and lying about things to me! She was liing with her family and arranged to move to my city 4 times but pulled out at the last minute except the last time when we both moved into an apartment 8kms from her family home so she could be close to her family as i lived in her town and i had no privacy with her family and har brother damaged property. What do you mean buy and not for sale? We got engaged in turkey 2 years prior! no1 was buying anyone as you put it. She tried to get the rings by telling me she would not pay rent for a months notice. s said she wanted kids, engagement, place to live and was planning a wedding with me but saying opposite to her friends i gave her all she asked for and gave up a life to be with her for her to pull out and break every promise she made. i dont see going out of my way for her happiness as controlling and i dont watch eastenders thank you!
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Of course not, i put everything i had into an apartment she picked 8kms away from her mother, i moved 60km to there. She could not handle being out of the family home and had a break down or somethin so i let her go and done my best to keep it going alone but couldnt. I was independant before and am now again. I see now they ruin men for fun. Just hopin they aint comin back to try fleece me again!