well, i know that there are alot of people on here. The problem is either they are in different countries or in different states. Like me, no one in my state contacts me. And its frusterating because this site is basically telling me if i'm going to have a 'mate' i'm going to have to travel. Which isnst realistic. I think that if you give this site or any site for that matter a chance, you'll find someone.. Sometimes we have to play the waiting game..
If you want to maintain a friendship based relationship with him because he's a good guy, just let him know that you like him but not in the way he likes you. And that you like talking to him and having those types of corespondances with him but romantically, 'i dont feel for you the way you feel for me. I've tried because i do like you. I think your a great person. And to drag this on so that you end up more romantically involved isnt right. I'm sorry if i hurt you. That was not my intention and i would like to stay in touch, just not with the intent of anything romantic'. And leave it up to him to accept the friendship or not and let him know that you understand if he doesnt. There really is nothing to apologize about and he's a big boy.. He wont die because you're not into him romantically. And the sooner the better. Whatever you choose to tell him, do it soon before it seems like your leading him on..
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well, i know that there are alot of people on here. The problem is either they are in different countries or in different states. Like me, no one in my state contacts me. And its frusterating because this site is basically telling me if i'm going to have a 'mate' i'm going to have to travel. Which isnst realistic. I think that if you give this site or any site for that matter a chance, you'll find someone.. Sometimes we have to play the waiting game..btw