There is a big difference between staying in a serious relationship with someone you love when you later find out you/he can't have kids and starting a relationship that may or not become serious with someone who doesn't want kids.
When I get e-mails I read the profile to decide if I will reply or not. I particularly look out for dealbreakers. How else are you supposed to know who you might like or be suited to!!! It just wastes peoples time otherwise.
My profile here say I want kids some day and it clearly say I want to meet a guy who wants kids. However, I only using this site for the forum now. On the paid site I joined I clearly say I want kids and want to meet guy who want kids. Obviously a lot of guys don't take much notice of what profiles say!
I would see that as positive. Looks like I am possibly right in thinking guys are just not being honest when filling in profiles. I think it's better to just be honest and you might have a chance of meeting the right person you could have a future with (assuming you want more than a quick fling).
So, do I continue not to reply to the 'no sure' guys or not?
I agree. I have some very close friends who 'don't know'. They are married 6 years and still 'don't know'! I think if you really can't decide you just don't want kids. I'm not saying that's a bad thing. Nobody should have kids if they don't want them.
Oh God, I just saw comments on the first photo. Just read them all. I hope the Guards take it very seriously and find the guy. Keep us posted and let us know what happens.
It probably drives them mad because although they are legally adults they still act like kids and as financially dependent on the parents. But I think Irish mothers need to make their kids take responsibility for things earlier in life. That mother should make the son pay her back. A few saturday nights in should be all that's needed.
My first e-mail was horrible. I nearly deleted my profile. I have has quite a few unwelcome/rude e-mails here. I have since joined a paid site and am finding it a more positive experience. People aren't only there to mess. The other site is probably working out better because I posted photos so I take some blame there!
I've a friend who broke up with her ex after 6 years because he only told her then that he didn't want kids. I thought it was a horrible thing to lead her to think he did up until then.
I know it's personal but if your not honest in your profile your just going to end up meeting people you aren't suited to. I just don't want to get involved with someone if there is definately no future in it. Not wanting kids is a deal breaker for me.
I would be willing to send photo after chatting a while.
Supposed I would be embarrassed if someone I knew saw me here! Silly really.
I noticed a lot of people have photos that are taken so far away that you can't see there face! Don't see the difference with that and no photo at all!
Also, someone could put up a photo of someone else anyway so you can never be sure if that is what they look like!
Everyone assumes it's only women who get broody. I know a few guys who are the broody one in the couple! One poor guy is even married to a woman who doesn't want kids and she hasn't even told him!!!
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Do you want kids?
Adoption.