Most guys I've dated have been late 20's/early 30's, generally 6 - 12 years older. In my experience older guys generally have more consideration for you and aren't just on auto pilot like younger guys, they take the time to make sure you're happy..if you get me :)
No, but he definitely wasn't nervous! He was the most confident cocky guy I've ever dated, sure he was 32, definitely not insecure or inexperienced. I think it was a power trip thing to be honest!
Looks wise, I generally go for tallish, well built guys with dark hair, other than than I'm not too fussed, I normally just look for that one thing about him that gives me butterflies
Personality wise; I'd like to be with someone who'd never ever let me down, someone I who would never judge me or try to change me - someone who would love me for me.
He'd have to be funny, but with a dry wit, he'd say things sometimes that no-one else would get but would make me just look over at him and smile :)
He'd definitely have to be active, he doesn't have to be Mr Muscle or anything but he'd have to care about his health and look after himself.
He'd get on with my friends straight away, I wouldn't have to 'babysit' him on nights out because he'd be confident enough to hold his own in a crowd.
Speaking of confidence, there's nothing more attractive than a man with a quiet confidence; someone who doesn't have to brag or be loud to make himself heard, someone who can command a crowd with just one word.
He'd be a wee bit cheeky too, I'd never get on with a guy who let me walk all over him, he'd have to be well able to stand up to me and tell me when I'm wrong - because I know I can be stubborn!
Ambition is a major quality I'd look for too, it doesn't matter what his goals are - as long as he has them. I couldn't be with someone who had no drive in life.
He'd have to be considerate, to care about how I feel and to listen when I need an ear.
Basically..he'd be my friend...but the friend I fall in love with.
No, see that's the problem. But I called her earlier and I gave my cousin my email, so she said she'd email me if anything happens tonight. To be honest it's just not been a great week, she had a fall a few days ago and broke her wrist, then had to go to theatre but they've kept her in because of her blood tests, and apparantly her pulse was slow after the surgery. She's on a blood pressure monitor at the moment.
I'm just finding it really hard because she's hardly ever ill and I don't know what I'd do if anything ever happened to her. She's 67 now and I forget that she' getting older :( See, she brought me up and she's more of a mother to me than my own ever was, she's done so much for me and I love her so much. God I don't know why I'm spilling my guts on here and I know it's silly, but it's just she lives 4 hours away too and I just want her to be ok - more than anything.
Ach aye it's doing my head in! I had heaps numbers on it that I need too My aunties in hospital at the moment too so I'm kind of lost without it, be worrying she might be trying to contact me and can't reach me. :(
You need to change that picture, or take it down, it doesn't look a bit like you.
I know you're saying it's an old pic but it's misleading. I'm not saying it's a looks thing - I just hate liars. That's why I took you off my facebook an stopped replying to you. If you want to meet somone nice then you're going to have to cop on a bit and be genuine.
I've a thesis to get finished in 13 days, a meeting til 10pm tomorrow night that I've to travel 2 hours to - and I'm hungover.. would kill for a hug right now! :(
I have no problem with a women who wants/has to raise her child alone; however I think it's completely selfish for any woman to have a child knowing that she can't provide adequate care, security and love for that child. Too many women are having kids and scrouging off society to bring them up, the kids stay second best and never know what it's like to feel valued - to feel loved, and that's not how it should be.
I sympathaise with anyone who has an unplanned pregnancy, and I have great respect for women who go on to raise the child the best they can with what they have; but I have no sympathy for someone with no job and no security or those with addictions who decide to bring a child into the world.
The world has too many lost children, too many babies who cry themselves to sleep at night alone, and too many mothers who don't know what it is to be a parent.
Money isn't everything, and a women with a penny to her name may well love her child more than life itself, but is that child really going to have the best start it can in life? It's unlikely. In my opinion we owe it to our children to give them the things that we never had, to support them until they can support themselves, and to love them forever.
You get the same football hooligans in every country, it's actually a really interesting sub-culture to study; if any of ye are interested have a look at 'Life on the Terrace' by Marsh at al, it gives a really interesting insight into each sub group that exists with the culture.
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My aunties in hospital at the moment too so I'm kind of lost without it, be worrying she might be trying to contact me and can't reach me. :(
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RE: Do older men make BETTER LOVERS!