Look I'm sure he's a lovely guy in person, and very much real - but the fact is that his pictures aren't. And if he's going to keep making posts like this then he's opening himself up to scrutiny.
You're right though, I don't want to hurt anyone, but please Bdock just be yourself - why is it that you think that's not good enough? I guarantee you'll do much better here with a bit of confidence and by just being you. No decepton necssary.
I'm not going to slate anyone on here, I'll just state the facts. I was chatting to bdock for a while, then I saw his facebook pictures and realised they were different to the one he has on here, I wasn't impressed agt being lied to so I cut contact. I then recieved a good few mails after that and ended up having to block him, not something I'd normally do unless really necessary.
IF the pic is the same guy then it must be about 10 years old. Either way it's very very misleading.
Bdock, your pictures aren't the problem, your attitude is. Lying won't get you anywhere and it sure as hell won't get you a relationship. Sort it out.
Oh and I'm not the chick Rob referredto at the start, so someone else must have had the same situation also.
..because their personality isn't what's going to keep me warm at night!
Look at it this way, I used to work with a guy who was obese, lovely personality but dangerously overweight all the same. Did that matter? YES! Why? Because nice as he was, quite frankly I didn't want to jump his bones. End of.
It's the difference between friends and lovers, you don't fancy your friends.
Ah look, its all very well saying that because someone is nice and genuine you should give them a chance, but in all honesty it doesn't matter how nice someone is - if there's no physical attraction then it's not going anywhere. It's harsh but it's true.
I got mine for my Graduation and I wanted it for years, it says Alis volat propriis' which means 'she flies by her own wings'. It means the world to me. I've a kind of swirl design around it with butterflies in flight and it's black and grey with shading. Have it just above my hip bone running up the side of my tummy.
I couldn't care less whether it's 'hot' or not, because it's for me and noone else.
I was thinking on heading out later, but now I'm all comfy sitting watching x factor so I don't know!! What's everyone elses plans for the night? Any other x factor addicts?
Hey guys,I've only chatted with a few of ye but I just wanted to say a goodbye and good luck as I'm taking down my profile. Been seeing a guy lately and I kind of want to see how that goes, also to be honest I'm just kind of getting tired of the same old 'hey babes' messages that have been hitting my mailbox! Ah ye know yourself!
There are some sound people on here though and I hope you all find what you're looking for
I went out for a few (ok a good few!) drinks on Fri in Dublin, and then headed to Carlow to see mate on Sat night, we just chilled out listening to music and singing songs/playing guitar all night, was a really chilled out night.
Was a really nice weekend actually,nothing too mad, just some quality with friends :)
Aye well see I go to the gym after work so on my days off I do something else like meet friends etc.
Crossfit is defintely based on overall fitness, but considering that you need to progress to things like pull ups and handstand push ups, I'd like to think there's a big element of strength training to it aswell!
You should give it another go by alternating it with strength training days to give you a good base. Are you taking any supplements?
Some dude I used to work with seemed to think I looked like Drew Barrymore, where he got that from I've NO idea, I'd blonde hair at the time but that's about it!!! I've got Emma Leddon before too....but I don't see it.
RE: The say something nice thread..
Genuine guy - a wee dote