wat are irish girls looking for in a relationship, (9)

(1)are the just after looks,
(2)are thet after just fun and nothing serious,
(3)are they after a loving relationship were they can be happy respected and loved if so why is it so hard to meet someone on here that wants that,most people on here write there profiles sincerely and from the heart in wat they are looking for just as i have wrote my profile,alot of guys here have alot of love to offer thats why we are here but it really takes two people to make this happen,for wat i can see that people just fly trough profiles here and never stop and think yes that sounds good to me he seems to be a nice genuine guy but that does not seem to be the way,i think if a guy sees a girls profile and he likes it he is going to make contact and i think the girls on here should do the same thats wat this is about this has to work both ways and not wait for the guys to make the first move maybe thats why we are all still single on here because we are all waiting scratching our heads waiting on the other person to make contact,life is short make the most of it on here and give people the benifit of the doubt and make contact and by doing that you could be presently suprised that you might have made the right choice on clicking on that profile,wat have you got to loose it takes more than a flower and one or two emails to get to know someone so come on guys just look at the profile reviews and see the amount of men and women on it looking to see is there anything wrong with them and there profiles,why is that because no one is giving anyone a chance here people are to picky and think they have so much to choose from if thats the case why are we all still here,

! start making contact no one is perfect you are not going to find your dream person that everyone is looking for if you are am sure i will see you here this time next year again,

Ah Come ON!!! Aint it the same for men and women??????

thats my point it is the same for both men and women so we both should make a better effort in making contact,

Ah look, its all very well saying that because someone is nice and genuine you should give them a chance, but in all honesty it doesn't matter how nice someone is - if there's no physical attraction then it's not going anywhere.
It's harsh but it's true.

well said Gra I totally agree with you!
you are a bundle of sense

even when there is physical attraction there is still not much of an effort made on both sides,i personaly am not looking for a super model with the perfect figure here someone thats nice genuine and honest looks are not the most important here and if thats wats been looked for you could be here for awhile,there is more to a person than just looks never judge a book by the cover they say,

I'd imagine that we are looking for a combination of all three options with just a little from each option......of course some things can grow from friendship and there are genuinely some cool guys here that would give a lot to a relationship but and I say this with a heavy heart...somethimes that isnt enough....there has to be a mutual attraction for the chemistry and all the rest to grow.

Well that's what I believe and if that means being single for another year then fine with me I'd rather hold out and take a chance on something that feels really right after waiting than walk into situations where I feel in my gut that I know nothing will happen and perhaps disappoint the other person....JMO

Well said B