To me, being needy occurs when our self-esteem has been damaged by whatever... furthermore creating vulnerability.
Can it be reversed? Yes, by changing our actions to get positive reinforcement from those around us, so that our esteem is restored to a healthy level, thus making us more invulnerable to vulnerability in the bad sense..of course.
So with that said..it's probably a good idea to postpone our search until that vital healing is attained.
This place is the core of cs and and actually works too. Cuase hell, my love bunny found me here and I was't even trying. Was just hangin out messin with people, and BAM! there she was.
RE: SLEEPING WITH ANIMALS....
That was for this post....