Sometimes we don't cry at first because it's too much to deal with at the time. There's nothing wrong with tears. Tears are the body's way of ridding itself quickly of pent up emotion that might otherwise damage us internally (hence, the theory goes, the increased longevity of women).
You asked the hard questions, got the hard answers, and made the hard decision.
I'm proud of you. With that strength of character, you will always come out a winner.
I've had the experience of having a guy want me to fill out a checklist! Pfft! Way to kill the romance, dude.
Honestly, I don't want to be asked directly what my intimate likes and dislikes are. Be in tune with me and gauge my reactions.
How do I respond when you stick your big, thick tongue down my throat for a goodnight kiss? Am I pulling away from you? Duh! Get that tongue back in your own mouth. THEN try the kiss again. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmuch better. See? Wasn't so hard to figure out my "intimate likes and dislikes" now, was it?
RE: This time, I found the strength to walk away
Sometimes we don't cry at first because it's too much to deal with at the time. There's nothing wrong with tears. Tears are the body's way of ridding itself quickly of pent up emotion that might otherwise damage us internally (hence, the theory goes, the increased longevity of women).You asked the hard questions, got the hard answers, and made the hard decision.
I'm proud of you. With that strength of character, you will always come out a winner.
~Angel