DrHughGRekshyn54 Forum Posts (85)

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

The point being that some women tend to overreact to the smallest things. I've seen it all before myself. My experience has taught me that those types are just best avoided since they are usually too unstable in character anyway.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

I really hate to say this but stupid people seem to have their stupidity magnified by what they do when online. It astonishes me to hear what some have done with online contacts when common sense would normally prevent you from doing such things otherwise.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

Chatroom...right. Is that right. I can believe it.

RE: Internet dating - Getting what you expected ?

From reading your posts it seems clear that you've been singing this same song on here for a long time. Do you think that perhaps your luck in meeting a new woman might be improved elsewhere and by other means? You seem more interested in being here on this site and talking about this all the time than actually spending your time meeting girls! Of course I could be mistaken.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

A 30 second delay?! Is that even possible today? Warning bells...If you or any other woman would be reluctant to actually speak to someone online, at least until you make the arrangements to meet and then speak on the phone, then I would suggest that you are clearly just wasting time online and not really wanting to meet someone. That is not completely uncommon here as I've previously stated. A man can clearly perceive if a woman is sincere and interested or insecure and unsure of herself. I prefer the former, the latter are to be avoided and unfortunately are all over the internet as well. And I suggest that that type is here online for that very reason. But I'm sure you're not that type.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

Ask immediately after you have a chat. Allow her to make an excuse about her hair or makeup not being ready but continue until you can see her. If she says she doesn't have a cam(unlikely but possible) then talk to her verbally online and get her number and talk to her on the phone. The rest is up to instinct and sorry to say, experience.

RE: Internet dating - Getting what you expected ?

You're clearly too intelligent to be here my friend.
Time as you stated is like money, in the sense that it can be spent wisely or simply wasted and like money, it will eventually run out. Unlike money however, once time is completely consumed or "spent" there is no way to replenish or recover your loses.

Life is getting too short for us to waste this precious resource so I hope you use your time as constructively as possible. Don't allow yourself the chance of looking back across your life with feelings of regret for time misspent or opportunities lost. Carpe diem!

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

You're beautifully blended too. This is not a good picture of me.

RE: Internet dating - Getting what you expected ?

Well said and best of luck. We should wisely not forget the traditional methods of actually meeting others in person as opposed to here online. It really seems that for some they have lost the ability to meet socially in the real world and instead come here on this site or others like it, as if they are their only means of making contact with others. Strange but true.

In 2 minutes, in a real world encounter with a woman I can; with an educated and experienced eye; decide if she is of interest to me as compared to endless hours/days/weeks? of chatting and messaging online.

That is the reality of seeking someone exclusively online...the aspect of wasted time. And how many of us have gone that route only to discover at the last moments that she/he isn't what you thought she/he was. The eye does not lie.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

Yes, it's common knowledge that fakes have fake pictures so seeing photographs online reveals nothing. But a live video image from a computer cam will show you the truth. It's as simple as that. Just move over to ym or msn for a cam chat. Now..if he/she doesn't have a cam then get their phone number and talk to check them out. You can usually tell fairly quickly if they are real or not. It works for me..however those blind dates are another story entirely.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

For identification purposes.

RE: Internet dating - Getting what you expected ?

I think you mean Patience unless you need medical attention or you are a doctor.

RE: Internet dating - Getting what you expected ?

So true..I've seen that many times. You're in a chatroom or on a chat site and the woman who's chatty and flirty may suddenly freeze when she sees that you live in her area. Too close for comfort.

RE: Internet dating - Getting what you expected ?

1987? I didn't realize that there even was an internet in 1987 let alone others to chat with. Computer technology was rather limited wasn't it?

RE: Internet dating - Getting what you expected ?

As if we have a choice.

RE: Internet dating - Getting what you expected ?

I have no doubt that this site will provide a way for like minded women to chat and socialize and bemoan their online experiences. But what about dating from here ?

RE: Internet dating - Getting what you expected ?

More than 20 years?! Surely not.

RE: Internet dating - Getting what you expected ?

I corrected your typos.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

Then you fit right in here. You are easy to look at and I wonder what your mixed race is.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

According to the OP "she" never responded to him again after that. A prank I suggest.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

Now don't be giving me those birdie whistles there Lassie and shaking your wee tail at me.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

Well maybe the OP was lucky to have turned around and sped away when he did, otherwise he might have become a big meal for some such weirdo.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

As the saying goes..'Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.' So we trust that you won't be fooled again.

And we don't want to be reading about someone eating your liver with some runner beans and a bottle of good chianti.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

Is that a fact now.

A Glesga burd walks into the local drycleaners. She places a garment on the counter. 'Ah'll be back ra morra efternin tae pick up ma dress',she says.

'Come again ?' says the clerk, cupping his ear.

'Naw' she replies. 'This time it's mayonnaise.'


Now goodfriend, would this be you?

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

That may be but my mother warned me about Glasgow girls. I don't want you making a haggis out of my private parts after you have your way with me.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

Then your kind is a population of one but no less suspicious. And don't be waving your flowers at me Lassie. I can see that wicked gleam in your eye.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

You're kind always make me suspicious Lassie, so don't be trying your winsome ways on me. And I'll be keeping one hand on my sporran. So away wi ya!

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

What exactly would a foreign accent have to do with what happened here to the OP. He was misled because he didn't confirm the contact verbally or visually before his adventure. Are you suggesting that if "she" had spoken to him on the phone and did have a foreign accent that he should have been suspicious? Beware of those girls with foreign accents!

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

No, more like a practical joke. The serial killer didn't seem too observant when he pulled into the driveway and sat there for a time. In any case he made a fool of himself and probably learned his lesson.

RE: Online dating Nightmare. (long)

HoooHooooo So whenever you heard a noise outside he said,
"Your eyes are like...." and "Dance with me baby".