Men are crazy and stupid! They can have a few extra fat rolls hanging over their belt..but we must be perfect! I think you look great! You have a great hourglass figure and like others have mentioned..these idiotic men who tell you that you are too fat are too shallow for you anyway! They are the ones who end up alone in the end, because they date stick figure twenty-somethings, and eventually these stick figured (usually shallow and materialistic) women get bored and move on to someone better looking or with more money! Yes, I am quite bitter on this subject, considering the fact that in today's society, women are subject to such conformity to be perfect or otherwise unattractive!! Good luck to you girl, you look awesome and don't give a second thought to those idiots...move on to higher standards!
I understand why we all lie a little when it comes to certain things; it is our insecurities screaming out loud! However, we need to accept ourselves as we are and if serious about finding someone...we need to be ourselves-completely, be honest with ourselves, and let others accept us for exactly who we are! I completely agree that this woman should have been honest with you in the beginning; you might have really liked her anyway...I guess we'll never know now!
RE: Where have all the good girls gone!!
I can relate to that! (wink, wink)