The sad part is in the end I was made the bad person because I brought it up. I saw a totally different side of him that I hadn't seen before. Very defensive, called me ugly names etc.
After telling him to grow up, I thought "Boy I am glad I ran from this one"
I went into things with him with an open mind but in the back of my mind learning somethings before I went out with him.
I wanted to give him a chance but as I found out more about how the child felt of him going out, asking a million questions of where he went and who he went with to even asking if he met any women. Shoot my daughter when she knows or even when she was younger would tell me go have fun.
Today when shes home she might ask who I am going out with and then when I get home she might ask if I had fun you know teenagers. lol
When I did approach him last night on the situation and how I was considered about his daughters issues on him dating.
I was told to never say that to him again.
I have since then chose to walk away. I made sure I told him he would never be able to have a healthy relationship if she continues to act the way she has over him dating.
I found out the true man last night when he went stupid on me.
Thanks everyone for your great advice. I am a single parent myself and my daughter is 18 now but she never acted that way when she was younger to me dating. I never brought a man around until I knew for sure that things would last so she wouldn't get emotionally involved.
I can say I have dated guys before with children and have never in my life ran into this kind of situation.
Would you continue to dating someone who's 9 year old daughter controls the parent?
The 9 year old doesn't want her Dad to date anyone. If he goes out he has to hide anyone in his life to the daugther and when he does go out the daughter will stay up to drill the father of where he went, if he met any women, what he did and who went with him.
Her mother passed away 3 years ago but the child runs the house now.
Any advice on what you would do in this situation?
So tell me what's your most odd profile you have read on a dating site.
Recently I read the following profile.
SEEKING:_____WHITE ONLY_____//___NO OTHER RACES___//-OR-___ ANY WHITE EUROPEAN____.. Perhaps Russian/ Ukrainian /Australian /Irish/Nordic/German/Swedish/Portuguese(Euro) /(Not Brazilian) /OR ANY Other White woman from ANY COUNTRY./NO OTHER ETHNICITIES. (NO MIXED Races)/NO Indian/NO Native Ancestors/NO Hispanics/No Blacks /THOSE ARE MY PREFERENCES.
NO FAKE PEOPLE!!/NO FAKE PERSONALITIES/__NO FAKE BREASTS/__NO COSMETIC SURGERY JUNKIES,Don't like overly done cosmetics, No painted on eyebrows. No multicolored hair, No changing hair color, BE NATURAL WHATEVER YOU ARE!!!!! DON'T TURN YOURSELF INTO A CARICATURE.____LYING, FAKE, PRETENTIOUS, MATERIALISTIC PEOPLE__TICK ME OFF. / IF all you care about is status,income, what I drive or wear, do us both a favor and don't waste your time, or mine.
As I recall most of us have either Native Ancestors, or European Ancestors.
Then as I continued to read about no changing hair color (come on I haven't known a woman yet that doesn't do that at least once in their life.lol.
There was more on the profile but as I got finished I thought man no wonder this guy can't find anyone lol
So what's your most strange or odd profile you have read online?
I was just recently told by a single dad that women didn't want to date him for his small child. So I am just asking to see what everyone's opinion is.
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