I can relate to your frustration and angst after a long day of shopping and not finding what you are looking for but then you lose me with........ But we still want to love and be loved for who we are.
How about some cliches? Is your glass half empty or half full? I want my cake and eat it too. How about next time you go shopping just enjoy the experience, think of the not so slim woman you smiled at and how good your smile made her feel and how good it feels to smile! Think about the clerks and cashiers you had friendly conversations with along the way.
Since this is on shopping, I drove 16 miles yesterday to take a friend to a store she had never been to before. We shopped for hours trying to find her a warm winter jacket and there were more jackets there than she had ever seen in her life! I helped her try jackets on, hang jackets up, look for jackets we had put away, complimented her on certain jackets, discouraged her from other jackets, walked away when I needed to rest for awhile. She didn't buy anything in that store! But I had fun because I introduced her to a great place to get jackets, she had fun because she had never seen anything like this before and I know she will go back and get one of those jackets when she is ready! Are you ready to love and be loved for who you are? If so you are ready to love and be loved for who they are.
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Women's Lib
Do you think the womens movement has helped or hindered relationships between men and women over the years?