Wow... What was i Thinking... ( Archived) (125)

So there you are, its 2am you have been online for hours, your bed sits empty and you just crave the touch of another, someone to share the couch and the rest of your life.. its at this time that someone instantly im's you from some place other than where you are, could this be the one? So it all starts over again, the hours of email the days on the phone and the scheduling of some kind of face to face meet.

And why is it that you always notice what the cam or camera didn't show in the pics, Sometimes i swear women have a certain angle that they can photograph thier face at that makes them appear average,, and what exactly is average today in our increasingly larger country? This frustrates me as i would like to think i am not so vain as to not be able to see through the ugly and realize alot of them are great people, but its like buyers shock.. here you are you have already spent money time and effort for something and its like you got tricked, but here you are now.. face to face with someone that you have spent 45 to 50 hours talking to.. you have some kind of bond.. but its not what you were shopping for, So if your like me your nice and just get honest about whatever bothers you and if its not gonna work you just tell them and go on..

But where does that leave you now? You have tried and failed once again, even though it really wasn't your fault, there are alot of people on the net trying to decieve in several ways, Although we must share the blame in the whole thing it still dosen't help us out, We are now more timid of people coming on strong to us on the internet, But we still want to love and be loved for who we are.

Ok.. So is this just me or do other people feel this same way?

I dunno what to say to you. Maybe you should not try to date via internet.

I dunno what to say to you. Maybe you should not try to date via internet.

OOps!


By the way, what's your sign, lol.



I'm guessing Virgo, lol

You amaze me MR! What the HELL???? So you fall in love and then instantly OUT OF LOVE because the woman is seemingly larger than your ideals of what a woman should be? You will never find what you seek with that attitude....you have really set yourself for a world of hurts by thinking that way and by having the balls to POST it HERE!!! LOL.....you really do deserve what is comong to you in here!!! Don't say you werent warned babes! LOL!

~Apes

Another poster talking about deceit and trickery....hummmm

It's a good thing that many of us on this forum are friends!

My opinion....it's all just chance here anyway no?

Certainly, people are going to try to portray their most attractive "sides" and all the angles show the world to be a colourful place....

Or you could try my approach. Post your worst looking, least attractive,tired and unshaven face and let. Then, when the real "face to face" happens, there is no disappointment in dealing with those who only seek a radiant cover and care not for the book....

Good luck buds!!!!

First of all you should not have high expectations. Second if your looking for a size five barbie doll your chances of that are zero to none since like you say that the worlds size is increasing and third if you never tried someone soft and fluffy you may not know what your missing.

I was a bit harsh huh? Sorry, I just dont see how people can be so flaky.....how can you profess your love to somone and then just "turn off" your feelings because the person is seeming "defective".......I suppose there is someone for everyone and it is not for me judge anothers prefrences......