Wow... What was i Thinking... (125)
Tumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 PostsI don't "not like you". I appreciate your apology and offer one to you, if I may have said anything that was taken wronly
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Okay so lets shake hands kiss and make up sound good. I am really a very sweet person. I think you know that, I think you just wanted to see how mean I really could be ha ha just joking
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oh my read this thread to funny and wish i would have gotten here earlier
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Ya me too Laurie.. I think depending on the mood we are in we all take things wrong from time to time. Thats what makes us human.
Attacking everyone maybe not so smart or nice. We all have our faults and we are all human.
As for a man never being married we that does not make him any more or less and was a real low blow.
I think we all are quilty at one time or another of making us look a little better than what we are on cam or here.. whatever. Thing is its a picture. If you like someone when you talk to them and get to know them than thats all that matters.
Though keep in mind if you make your self look more appealing that you are and meet then you look like a liar and you cannot have a relationship if you lie. Relationships should first and foremost be based on trust.
No point hiding who you are.. be honest and hope the other person gives you a chance. There is no other way to be.
Some women judge based on looks too...not just men. If you want someone to love and cuddle and spend your lonely nights lower your expectations. Looks are not everything and there have been enough threads about this very subject. Looks can change... find a skinny woman.. what if she gains 50 lbs with her first baby?? are you going to leave ??? Nope.. if you are a real man anyway. Got to look past the looks issue.. sore spot with many women.. men too!
Attacking everyone maybe not so smart or nice. We all have our faults and we are all human.
As for a man never being married we that does not make him any more or less and was a real low blow.
I think we all are quilty at one time or another of making us look a little better than what we are on cam or here.. whatever. Thing is its a picture. If you like someone when you talk to them and get to know them than thats all that matters.
Though keep in mind if you make your self look more appealing that you are and meet then you look like a liar and you cannot have a relationship if you lie. Relationships should first and foremost be based on trust.
No point hiding who you are.. be honest and hope the other person gives you a chance. There is no other way to be.
Some women judge based on looks too...not just men. If you want someone to love and cuddle and spend your lonely nights lower your expectations. Looks are not everything and there have been enough threads about this very subject. Looks can change... find a skinny woman.. what if she gains 50 lbs with her first baby?? are you going to leave ??? Nope.. if you are a real man anyway. Got to look past the looks issue.. sore spot with many women.. men too!
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you so hit the nail on the head karal
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DAMN!!! I'd say this got a bit out of hand! Im actually feeling sorry for the guy! No offense to anyone, but we are all adults here and I think this post has gotten a litte "Jaded" if I do say so myself! Yikes.....Too many people had their Post Toasties pissed in this morning!
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And...for the record...it's "horrible" not "thorrible"....and I read every single post before adding mine. I don't feel sorry for this guy at all. If he was mislead on character, actual description, whatnot, whatnot....then I would understand...it is not a nice thing to be lied to...BUT he is complaining about and ending contact with someone after spending 45-50 hours on the phone AND on webcam! It sounds to me like this girl did what she could to portray a sincere image of herself..what else could she have possibly been expected to do?? Why is it HER that has been deceitful?
I don't think so.
Sam
I don't think so.
Sam
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Anarqi wrote:
"Wow, maybe the Death Penalty thread and this one should be merged..."
Could someone please hand Anarqi a Pulitzer Prize for this award-winning comment. LOL
"Wow, maybe the Death Penalty thread and this one should be merged..."
Could someone please hand Anarqi a Pulitzer Prize for this award-winning comment. LOL
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Sounds good to me, I guess thats one other way to look at it.
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Sam..
Wow. I had no idea anyone would even read that post and I did write it in Haste, Actually I had only spent about 5 hours with that specific Woman, I was speaking in general to my overall opinion of internet dating and the frustration of it, I guess if anyone is at fault here is got to be me that i didn't express myself in a 300 page book and give references and direct quotes.. Maybe I should have just said that people that misled people on the internet SUCK and that i was sick of it, maybe that would have sounded better, Its kinda unique that all the women that are upset about what i said are large women also, So i guess i should have generalized my comments in another less offensive way.
I James Do believe that It SUCKS to not have the initial feel you get when you can see.. smell and find out if the spark is there before all the back and forth banter etc..
I also think there is nothing wrong with not wanting to go out with someone for the second time if you don't find them physically attractive. Thats something i need to have, I need to want the woman i am with, I need to feel that feeling that they turn me on. if they don't then why continue with it.?
Wow. I had no idea anyone would even read that post and I did write it in Haste, Actually I had only spent about 5 hours with that specific Woman, I was speaking in general to my overall opinion of internet dating and the frustration of it, I guess if anyone is at fault here is got to be me that i didn't express myself in a 300 page book and give references and direct quotes.. Maybe I should have just said that people that misled people on the internet SUCK and that i was sick of it, maybe that would have sounded better, Its kinda unique that all the women that are upset about what i said are large women also, So i guess i should have generalized my comments in another less offensive way.
I James Do believe that It SUCKS to not have the initial feel you get when you can see.. smell and find out if the spark is there before all the back and forth banter etc..
I also think there is nothing wrong with not wanting to go out with someone for the second time if you don't find them physically attractive. Thats something i need to have, I need to want the woman i am with, I need to feel that feeling that they turn me on. if they don't then why continue with it.?
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Nothing personal but babe sounds like really got some drama going on in your life.. did if feel good to get it out..
What i clarify as DRAMA hasn't got anything to do with what your talking about.. what i am talking about is people that have drug issues, drinking issues, ex issues, uncontrollable children issues, thier mom is married to thier uncle I mean stuff like that.. remember i do live in arkansas.
What i clarify as DRAMA hasn't got anything to do with what your talking about.. what i am talking about is people that have drug issues, drinking issues, ex issues, uncontrollable children issues, thier mom is married to thier uncle I mean stuff like that.. remember i do live in arkansas.
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just curious what do you tell the server at the restuant when the food is not exactly like the picture on the menue
you could ask for a mug shot aray of 8 x 10's b4 ya get to envolved i guess
but hey it is an adventure
you could ask for a mug shot aray of 8 x 10's b4 ya get to envolved i guess
but hey it is an adventure
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LMFAO adj4u
all I will say is nerve,gull and ingnorance
all I will say is nerve,gull and ingnorance
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well ya never know
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damn!!!!
anarqi and adj once again lets take cover!!!
these girls are never gonna find a lover with a bite like that!!!
i am seriously ashamed of the attitude i see here especially from Sam i thought she was an intelligent person....
i am sorry for the ignorance khybermaster and Tumpa.....
must be hormones....damn.....
a sad day for the forum
peace
anarqi and adj once again lets take cover!!!
these girls are never gonna find a lover with a bite like that!!!
i am seriously ashamed of the attitude i see here especially from Sam i thought she was an intelligent person....
i am sorry for the ignorance khybermaster and Tumpa.....
must be hormones....damn.....
a sad day for the forum
peace
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I can see where the trouble is coming from.....
Someone is stirring the pot and it's not someone we know. I'm just going to sit back and wait for the meltdown.
Someone is stirring the pot and it's not someone we know. I'm just going to sit back and wait for the meltdown.
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Bella, I think the "Bitter" thread Jax made was for said person. LOL Funny it's nothing but sweeties in that thread.
Adj, my food. I have absolutely told them I want it to look like the pic on the menu. Especially at fast food places. LOL
In general, nobody else on here has met someone face to face and wasn't what you anticipated? I think that's all he stated. Internet is difficult. After talking online with someone for so long, it's hard not to unconciously create a fantastical image of what that person looks like in the flesh. You set yourself up for downfall.
Anyway. What a creepy thread. Why am I here? LOL
Adj, my food. I have absolutely told them I want it to look like the pic on the menu. Especially at fast food places. LOL
In general, nobody else on here has met someone face to face and wasn't what you anticipated? I think that's all he stated. Internet is difficult. After talking online with someone for so long, it's hard not to unconciously create a fantastical image of what that person looks like in the flesh. You set yourself up for downfall.
Anyway. What a creepy thread. Why am I here? LOL
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takes her by the hand and says " dear Erin ! come along with me.
i have an interesting proposal for you... we are searching for a physical education teacher at the Academy......."
lmao!!
i have an interesting proposal for you... we are searching for a physical education teacher at the Academy......."
lmao!!
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Skipping along with glee.
I'll be glad to volunteer my services for the good of all mankind.
I'll be glad to volunteer my services for the good of all mankind.
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