Wow... What was i Thinking... ( Archived) (125)

khybermaster ...can I ask??? what are you looking for??

If you build up no expectations when you meet the person you will have an open mind and not be disappointed. Decide what is really important to you before you even start looking. That special someone might just pop out when you least expect it.

Try talking to a woman for a while and get to know who she really is before worrying what she looks like.

Sweet Cheeks,

Wow, what am i looking for, Sometimes its easier for me to know what i am not looking for than it is the other way around.

short or tall
athletic to average in size
christian in belief
25 to 40 in age
smart to literate,
children or not
not materialistic
light on the drama with a side of crazy
adventerous freespirited
no party girls or drug users

Is that enough?

Amy,

You have a good point.

Excuse me to get back on topic here, but I just had to respond.

Khybermaster-->> I wasn't focussing my point on your rejecting someone on size alone. Others may have been, but I wasn't. As for the "drama" you bring up in such a "grasping at straws" display, I hardly think that my having a strong opinion about shallow hypocrites (and all other sorts of unsavoury characters for that matter)shows any sign--supporting or otherwise--that I have any more "drama" in my life than what would be considered average. You make a nice smokescreen out of it--perhaps to make up for the fact that you really had no legitimate rebuttal at all--but it just simply isn't so. I only responded to what you included in your original post, and I hate to say it but any caring person spending "45 to 50 hours talking" and watching web-cam etc...having developed a "bond"...could never then simply "just tell them" that physically they are a disappointment, "and go on". It is a cruel thing to do.

No one is saying you are then obligated to enter a long-term relationship where there is no spark, but making it sound as though SHE brought it on herself through deceit "And why is it that you always notice what the cam or camera didn't show in the pics, Sometimes i swear women have a certain angle that they can photograph thier face at that makes them appear average", is a copout.

As for some others' feeble comments throughout this thread, you are of course entitled to your opinion. It is amusing however to, as an observer, notice your "opinions" fluxuating depending on what your peers are deeming the "acceptable" response. As always (and expected), the flock of sheep loves to gather together around the one with the individual point of view to see which one of you can come up with the best one liner.

Bear in mind however that if we all held the same opinions, or declined to voice our own, this would be a very boring forum indeed. Many people don't notice their own faults or mistakes until someone else has the balls to point them out. Sometimes the truth just hurts.

Bash away, fellow searchers....to join in with the rest...to voice your own opinions....or just to vent...I don't mind a bit. As an intelligent and vocal person, I am used to other strong personalities having their own opposing opinions. This is of course where progress comes from.


Sam

All I h ave to say is that yes I feel the same.

smilesandcurves wrote:
"All I have to say is that yes I feel the same."

The same as what? The same as you felt yesterday?

I feel the same as I did when I was 20.

No seriously, I do!

Well, at least in some ways. I guess in other ways I feel like a dirty old man which I didn't feel when I was 20. (ha ha)

Oh dear,... where'd I put my Geritol?

for they have their reward they are seen by men

Sam.

You know i really was thinking that i might have an issue about something important till i read your last post, Now i am just so Glad I am not you that i feel so much better, Wow Life really isn't that bad afterall. Could I have a Cookie with some of that psycho babble your dishing out,

but thanks for telling us how great you are and that your right, If you were catholic we could make a shrine for you out of wadded up newspaper, Obviously you have a education and can think clearly enough to try the old plant some seeds in the idiots heads game but No thanks I don't accept that, Now hopefully this will give you something else to blame the world for your problems,

Well, I agree with you on one thing--your idiot brain just isn't very accepting of seeds of knowledge.

We all have our areas of expertise. Mine just happens to be human behaviour, society's influence, and "psycho babble".

You posted a thread in the form of a question (as many do), indicating a lack of insight into a specific situation and a desire to gain the same. Many people tried their best to sow your brain with their knowledge, as it were. As it turns out, you really just wanted to voice your own callous opinions. Your apparent bitterness towards women won't help you here. Too bad, because you really could use some help.

It's a shame you missed my thread regarding personality disorders. There was a lot of insight for you in there.


Sam

Guess that shut her up..