Sometimes no talking Hard and fast and then slow and sensual and on and on and repeat untill both content. on and on and on like the energizer bunny. :)
Depends on the mood and weither she or i am in control of the session and how much time we have.
Well on the opposite scale of this thread what happens when you meet her and she is more than what you expected and click all the time and things culdnt be better ever had that experince but i guess you wouldnt be here if you had.
wow single again isnt such a bad thing look at it as a learning experience and we can all do with learning more and i have learned a few mtric tons of things since my last relationship...
wow single again isnt such a bad thing look at it as a learning experience and we can all do with learning more and i have learned a few mtric tons of things since my last relationship...
trust me when it happens and its like getting hit by a juggernaut and u wont be able to focus on a lot of things so enjoy it... it tends to happen when ur least expecting it..
I admire strength but also admire softness as well oh not easy to keep the balance indeed and yes sam some of us have not had an easy time thats for sure.
But now we cant go out damn the white stuff is here.
Now this is a interesting subject i have met my fair share of pushy women i can tell you and i will be first to slap the brakes on as my ex was an absolute control freak i dont want to ponder on the past but i must admit i look at realtionships in a different light now.
If i cannot engage as a equal on many things or see the door swining one way i tend to get insecure and this and will be cause for concern on my behalf.
If someone who cant engage as an equal or i can feel that im low on the list of priorities i will pull away ist only natural its a fine to balance i must admit i need someone who is there but not someone who will smother me so i cant breath.
And i would expect this from my partner as well but to be quite frank we are going to let people cross these boundries if we are comfortable with them being in that space as for folding laundry i do that anyway and love to do laundry i get that from my mother.
Funny now that im out of that relationship she still tries to drag me back funny control freaks just dont know when they dont have no more control left.
but dont want to deviate from the subject its a cause for concern but only is an issues if you throw up walls and then sit back and watch genuine caring ppl try and clamber over the obstacles.
Me if it fits go with it thats a simplicity in itself and if i was meant to be it will be.
I agree i lost my father to cancer he knew he was not going to make it i spent the last year with him discovering the man who was my father i stayed with him till the end and loved him dear. And he got the chance to tell me he loved me many times before he left this life.
Abra go for it and stop overalaysing everything youl end up getting lost in logic and being a clever but lonely person.
invest some time in learning to do some dancing and learn some new steps. Im going to learn to do the salsa and i quite fancy learning to take a woman and dance with her and hold her close.
If you did that and wooed her im sure her work collegaues would be impressed and to be quite frank they are not the ones you are interested so channel ur energy at the lucky lady and let her have it.
Just re-assure her and love her and make sure you take time from ur busy day to touch base and small things do mean the world. A touch on the shoulder a caring moment shared a time to relfect on the good times. And a hug a kiss and time for eachother with a good ear open and help in anyway helps.
Anyway back onto the subject the best Men are everywhere you passed us in the mall u passed us in the hall. We are helping ur child to do up his shoelace or lining up for the checkout.
Look for the man that looks happy to be him and doesnt look like a gormless fool smiling at anything that moves. Be charming take the time out of a busy day to hold back from the blurr of one thing to the next notice how people hold themselves and how they present themselves im not talking an Armani Suit but by how they are confident not arrogant and can they hold a conversation and can they make you smile and feel good to be close.
If you master that youl see a inner beauty you may have missed before but if you can master that you can wax on and wax off with little effort.
You can normaly get a feel for a person by talking to them a few times and if you enjoy meeting people and having a laugh your half the way there. Boooze is not needed but a nice cup of tea helps a card game and some laughs and some good quality time away from the hussle and bussle of life helps as we all lead busy lives.
Now im giving to much away as there are signs you can look for when you see people and the body language is a good one with me its easy if i feel close to a woman and want her to know im interested i will test her space get close and see what her reaction is this is normaly a indicator of what the status is or she needs a better prescription on her glasses.
anyways enough of the secrets im going to be dissbarred from the man club if i say anymore.
im telling you do things outside and go to the park with the little one there are other ppl there who know other ppl soon the whole world will be networked and ill be rushed off my feet a little bit more...
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RE: Slow and Sensual or Hard and Fast with cuddling afterwards?
Sometimes no talking Hard and fast and then slow and sensual and on and on and repeat untill both content. on and on and on like the energizer bunny.:)
Depends on the mood and weither she or i am in control of the session and how much time we have.