i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend ( Archived) (20)

Nov 23, 2005 11:56 PM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
plasticman
plasticmanplasticmanbattleboro, North Carolina USA5 Threads 9 Posts
somebody up here help me out an tell me whats wrong with me or something an help me figure out why i cant find a girlfriend
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Nov 24, 2005 12:13 AM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
sweetcheecks
sweetcheeckssweetcheecksLondon, Ontario Canada7 Threads 265 Posts
Well plastic... have you been looking.. sending email to ladys and starting a conversation? You know you can't get mail unless you send mail lol

Maybe put a bit more about yourself on your profile and more about what kind of woman you are looking for. You will find someone when you least expect it.

You are not the only one still searching. A friend keeps telling me you have to plow through all the weeds to find a keeper. Keep looking.. search through the profiles and when you find someone that jumps out at you and looks like someone you may have things in common with mail her. Do not wait for women to come to you. Many people are scared to put there hearts out there. It hurts to have rejection and no one wants to be rejected.

I recently helped two people come together. The woman had noticed the man for a long time but did not want to approach him and the man had no idea she liked him. It took an outsider to see the match.

Keep the faith.. you are young and it will come in time.

Karla
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Nov 24, 2005 1:45 AM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
ohiostate4life
ohiostate4lifeohiostate4lifemarion, Ohio USA34 Threads 626 Posts
Karla makes some good points. Don't sit back and wait, trust me it's not very effective. Put some more detail in your profile, more about you and what you're looking for. Women don't go by pictures, some do, but the good ones don't. Give them something in your profile that'll catch their eye. Be honest, if not they'll catch you slippin eventually. Do you go anywhere that may have any potential?
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Nov 24, 2005 2:06 AM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
sweetcheecks
sweetcheeckssweetcheecksLondon, Ontario Canada7 Threads 265 Posts
Coughing...me make good points.. umm ok ty.. thats a first lol.

If a woman is worth having she will not go by your picture. Its whats on the inside that matters.. who you are and what is in your heart.
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Nov 24, 2005 3:50 AM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
If you cannot find a woman it means no woman has found you yet. I thus suggest that you post a new thread particularly meant for the ladies. Ask them how and what would make them identify you amongst the multitude of glorious guys here including myself(Mindpower). hahhahahaha Lol!
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Nov 24, 2005 6:06 AM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
sweetcheecks
sweetcheeckssweetcheecksLondon, Ontario Canada7 Threads 265 Posts
Just be sure to keep your profile sweet and true... thats the important part.. do not try to be something your not.. what a turn off!
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Nov 24, 2005 8:02 AM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
so why cant i find a boyfriend
cause i speak my mind and i am not just an average woman heheh
anyways dont look so hard send a flower to those women who you find interesting if nothing else maybe you will have agreat friend i ahve found many guy friends here and if thats all i find thats fine with me
but thats besides the point start a conservation with a woman whose profile you find interesting let her get to know the real you and get to know her


laurie
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Nov 24, 2005 9:11 AM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
sweetcheecks
sweetcheeckssweetcheecksLondon, Ontario Canada7 Threads 265 Posts
Awww Laurie.. you are sooo sweet.. you will find a boyfriend.. men can't handle how wonderful you are. One day a true man will come along and treat you like you should be treated and sweep you off your feet.

Making lots of friends on here helps with everything. Send those flowers.. come and talk in the forums lots and soon you will have lots of friends and people will read your thoughts and feelings and want to get to know you plastic!
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Nov 24, 2005 9:24 AM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
thanks karla
i think i am too sweet heheh
anyways plastic you will find the one one day just take ur time and have fun will doing it


laurie
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Nov 27, 2005 5:53 AM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
plastic man your asking the world why cant u find a girl,well plastic no one here can answer that question for you,you are the only one that can
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Nov 27, 2005 8:53 AM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
schmorbraten
schmorbratenschmorbratenCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany33 Threads 1,462 Posts
damn right
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Nov 27, 2005 10:37 AM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
i believe there was a recall on blow up dolls due to leaky air valves but i'm sure you can pick one up on e-bay lol
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Nov 27, 2005 12:02 PM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
Also, if you add to your profile or post on the forum, don't make yourself out as god's gift to all women or keep offering to "please" them.
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Nov 27, 2005 4:13 PM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
celina
celinacelinafort lauderdale, USA2 Threads 60 Posts
First change your screen name lol no one wants a plastic man just joking. You have to stop looking so hard let love find you dont look for it.
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Nov 27, 2005 8:42 PM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
eugenios
eugenioseugeniosCollingwood, Ontario Canada72 Posts
trust me when it happens and its like getting hit by a juggernaut and u wont be able to focus on a lot of things so enjoy it... it tends to happen when ur least expecting it..
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Nov 27, 2005 9:08 PM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
I agree absolutely with Celine, start off with a better screen name; "plasticman" makes you sound totally artificial, someone not real, cheap as plastic is, it conjures up too many negatives even on a subconscious level;same dilemas as ad people have...how does a name afeect people subconsciously....find one closer to the real you, your favourite whatever....
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Nov 27, 2005 10:33 PM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
MissMel472
MissMel472MissMel472Hazel Green, Alabama USA3 Threads 60 Posts
I am going away from the norm here...

Great ideas to ya'll :)

Maybe actually submitting a post that supports your good points instead of "why can't I find a g'friend".. sorry, but in my eyes.. I see as a tad uhm.. desparate sounding?.. I am sure you have loads of self-esteem but with so many wonderful ladies reading these posts everyday.. seeing that particular one may be somewhat standoffish..

I mean no offense to you whatsoever.. just a point of view..
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Nov 28, 2005 12:02 AM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
2good2b_bad
2good2b_bad2good2b_badSt. Petersburg, FL, Florida USA9 Threads 176 Posts
Abracadabra, nice to hear from you again bro. I think you are a little over the top with the "womanizer" thing, but go on....do it your way.


He did nail the point though. Don't stop being the nice guy, just don't rely on it to get you a girl. Gotta have that drive, bud. Go proactive in your search.





Now, I wanna know why I am attracted to girls with problems. I can't seem to stop. Maybe I need some sort of medication or shock therapy. Oh well, such is life.
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Feb 21, 2006 4:58 AM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
kenigsberg
kenigsbergkenigsbergkentville, Nova Scotia Canada13 Threads 1,127 Posts
Well said ... :o)
you seems like a good boy but yet Plastcman yes change your nick name it wll help
keep warm :o)
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Feb 21, 2006 6:50 AM CST i wanna know why i cant find a girl friend
Mike1162
Mike1162Mike1162Over the Rainbow, Pennsylvania USA70 Threads 1,694 Posts
I agree with the others about changing your plasticman name. I use my name simply because I am real. I believe that woman want to get to know the real person and not a plastic man that may or may not have good intentions. Show your true colors and stay consistant no matter what.

Mike
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