Well plastic... have you been looking.. sending email to ladys and starting a conversation? You know you can't get mail unless you send mail lol
Maybe put a bit more about yourself on your profile and more about what kind of woman you are looking for. You will find someone when you least expect it.
You are not the only one still searching. A friend keeps telling me you have to plow through all the weeds to find a keeper. Keep looking.. search through the profiles and when you find someone that jumps out at you and looks like someone you may have things in common with mail her. Do not wait for women to come to you. Many people are scared to put there hearts out there. It hurts to have rejection and no one wants to be rejected.
I recently helped two people come together. The woman had noticed the man for a long time but did not want to approach him and the man had no idea she liked him. It took an outsider to see the match.
Keep the faith.. you are young and it will come in time.
Karla makes some good points. Don't sit back and wait, trust me it's not very effective. Put some more detail in your profile, more about you and what you're looking for. Women don't go by pictures, some do, but the good ones don't. Give them something in your profile that'll catch their eye. Be honest, if not they'll catch you slippin eventually. Do you go anywhere that may have any potential?
If you cannot find a woman it means no woman has found you yet. I thus suggest that you post a new thread particularly meant for the ladies. Ask them how and what would make them identify you amongst the multitude of glorious guys here including myself(Mindpower). hahhahahaha Lol!
so why cant i find a boyfriend cause i speak my mind and i am not just an average woman heheh anyways dont look so hard send a flower to those women who you find interesting if nothing else maybe you will have agreat friend i ahve found many guy friends here and if thats all i find thats fine with me but thats besides the point start a conservation with a woman whose profile you find interesting let her get to know the real you and get to know her
Awww Laurie.. you are sooo sweet.. you will find a boyfriend.. men can't handle how wonderful you are. One day a true man will come along and treat you like you should be treated and sweep you off your feet.
Making lots of friends on here helps with everything. Send those flowers.. come and talk in the forums lots and soon you will have lots of friends and people will read your thoughts and feelings and want to get to know you plastic!
trust me when it happens and its like getting hit by a juggernaut and u wont be able to focus on a lot of things so enjoy it... it tends to happen when ur least expecting it..
I agree absolutely with Celine, start off with a better screen name; "plasticman" makes you sound totally artificial, someone not real, cheap as plastic is, it conjures up too many negatives even on a subconscious level;same dilemas as ad people have...how does a name afeect people subconsciously....find one closer to the real you, your favourite whatever....
Maybe actually submitting a post that supports your good points instead of "why can't I find a g'friend".. sorry, but in my eyes.. I see as a tad uhm.. desparate sounding?.. I am sure you have loads of self-esteem but with so many wonderful ladies reading these posts everyday.. seeing that particular one may be somewhat standoffish..
I mean no offense to you whatsoever.. just a point of view..
Abracadabra, nice to hear from you again bro. I think you are a little over the top with the "womanizer" thing, but go on....do it your way.
He did nail the point though. Don't stop being the nice guy, just don't rely on it to get you a girl. Gotta have that drive, bud. Go proactive in your search.
Now, I wanna know why I am attracted to girls with problems. I can't seem to stop. Maybe I need some sort of medication or shock therapy. Oh well, such is life.
Mike1162Over the Rainbow, Pennsylvania USA1,694 posts
I agree with the others about changing your plasticman name. I use my name simply because I am real. I believe that woman want to get to know the real person and not a plastic man that may or may not have good intentions. Show your true colors and stay consistant no matter what.
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