2good2b_bad Forum Posts (176)

Anyone know a good place to get a djembe hand drum in the Tampa Bay area?

At first it may not look like a dating topic, but there are attractive women that dance there, and I like the drums. Okay....so I like the girls that dance too.

RE: What's up Florida?

Hello there then. I guess it is twenty minutes, at about three in the morning. Anything close to high volume and its about 35 minutes or so. Not too bad, guess I am lucky to find a good job on this side of the bridge. So I see something about veeryone meeting up, has that already happened. I get a corporate discount to the theme parks if it goes down. Kinda hard for me to schedule. My days off are not together. Anyways, hello and it is nice to meet everyone.

RE: What's up Florida?

So much for intelligence....after fifteen minutes of reading forums I finally realised they changed it so that it is specific to state. So I guess I will ask if anyone is close to me?

RE: What's up Florida?

Been awhile since I have posted anything. I am in St Pete. So hello to everyone, nice girls here in Florida.

What is it that is such a turn off about the needy?

I have been rejected before in the past, and i have also rejected some for being to needy. But it is hard for me to understand from only my view point.
Just curious...........

RE: Would You Risk Your Life...

Depends if the stranger has legs like you got in that picture wikked. There isn't a whole lot a guy in his prime wouldn't do to save something like that.

RE: Are You Afraid To Fall In Love?

Well, in light of some information I recently discovered.....I may have an answer. You see....I have been going about it the wrong way. But 2 yrs ago I had a girl friend who had a young baby. With this baby i discovered what UNCONDITIONAL love is. I didn't want anything back....I just wanted to see her happy and healthy.-------The reason my relationships have been going bad is because I have been taking a more consumer attitude into it. You know.....I'll give you this......but I want that..... I'll provide these....but I want those......That sort of thing. The reason it worked with the child is because I GAVE the love to her. Nothing expected back. I just liked seeing the child happy. In return she called me dada. Well worth it...
Anyways, to say I would be willing to love now means that I would be willing to GIVE love. Nothing expected. Just UNCONDITIONAL care for another human being.....regardless of dividends. I am not sure. Do I have the capability to accept the responsibility to give love.
Will I mess it up with expectations and desires?
Probably. I am not perfect.
But who knows, I might just get better at it.

RE: life

New Years is the time to reflect on the events of the past year and list the accomplishments, the failures. A time to make sure the failures have taught us a lesson, and then become assets.
A brand new year is upon us, a new start. Clear the slate, arm yourself with the lessons learned, stride with chin-up into the life we dream of achieving.

You know........ I think everything is going to be alright.

What would you give?

Yeah, adj4. My ex-wife did the same sort of thing. Today I work to be better for me. She is happy in her new relationship, something I was unable to do for her. So I am thankful for that. I made a list of the reasons we would fight, and then I sorted my actions in those occaissions. I took responsibility for my character defects. Now I practice a living amends, meaning I try my best not to repeat those actions. I am not perfect, infact the same thing just happened again. But this time she was the one making the wrong moves. I am still no better at picking women. But I am getting better at accepting them, and the way things turn out. The truth is....I can't make someone love me. But if I love myself, and strive to become someone I would love; then I shall attract someone who can love.

All I can do is try to make my life better. So that I utilize the first chance with some one. Instead of fearing that I am doomed to repeat the process.

What would you give?

What would you give.....
To never have a broken heart again.
Would you stop loving?
To never feel alone again...
Would you join a convent?
To never say I miss her again...
Would you put up with her defects?
To have that one last chance....
Would you make use of the first one you get?

RE: 2 word add on game

truth within

RE: Dedicate a Song to Someone

"Hate me Today" to my ex Brandy.
Ahhh, damn, thought they had a smiley with a middle finger up...would have been so much more invigorating.

RE: Men living in, or relocating to Florida...

15 days until I move to clearwater, fl. So sick of the midwest.......

RE: Ok.. do men like getting flowers?

Keep the teddy bear and candy. But I have gotten black roses. Its kinda a thing of mine. I'll take any flower, as long as its black.

RE: What would you wish people would say of you when you are dead?

I didn't know someone could have that much fun and live that long.

RE: whear is a good place to meet a nice girl

Just hang out in the women's bathroom at the mall. There is bound to bve one to come in sooner or later. And just think.....maybe you will get lucky and get a female probation officer!

RE: Tell me your problem and I will give you an answer!!!! Everyone welcome!!

Oh please give me more credit than that. Yeah she is legal, but more than a decade younger than me.

RE: Tell me your problem and I will give you an answer!!!! Everyone welcome!!

All right, I'll subject myself to some advice.

There is someone I like, and digs me just as much. The problem is she is much younger than I. The question is....do I give it a chance or no?

RE: Does anyone like me?

sorry joovist no flowers from me..........but I think antsypantsy is really cute!

RE: Going Back to the Gym..Bring on your Best Advice & Worst Experience

That's great Lilyofthevalley, hang in there. Yeah, I go home pretty sore sometimes. But I am starting to look forward to the pain. It means progress. Don't get disouraged, most of the gains lie underneath the surface. So it takes a while to see any improvement. But you start to notice the other benefits early on. Like more energy to do things. I feel like doing more now, rather than just vegging out. Good luck.

RE: Things NOT to say on a first date

"I could never tie myself to just one man." That was the last date I had. I seen her the other day, and she had the audacity to ask why I haven't called.

RE: Anyone notice?!?

As long as they are a 1000 miles away, there seem to be a lot of hotties. Ecspecially in foreign countries.

RE: Going Back to the Gym..Bring on your Best Advice & Worst Experience

The hardest part is walking through the door. I gained 60 lbs last winter, and in my picture I am still carrying 30 of it. I have now lost most of it, and have now gained ten pounds in muscle.
It had been a while for me too. I was always active in the gym in my early twenties....but got lazy after a while. Then I was a family guy, and sat around eating to cure the boredom.
Go slow at first, don't try to keep up with the kids. A common misconception is that everyone is judging you when you are at the gym. If anyone is, then they aren't there to actually make progress. I have to deal with 18 yr olds in my gym. Some of them do stand around making fun of people, but who cares what some cocky kid thinks? Lets see how they look when they are thirty.
Now i have a question for you......I get something called shin splints when I jog regularly....any advice on how to avoid them? Also, I have symptoms of tennis elbow. Any advice for the pain in my elbow?

RE: Can true love be far away?

Have you ever been to South Dakota? Everything is far away from here!

RE: Guys..What Would You Do If You Found Out The Foxy Looking Chick You Were Dating Was Really A Guy???

never happen.
The things that I look for first are:
1. Adam's apple
2. Nice butt
3. Wedding ring

RE: Why Do Bad Guy's Always Get The Girl???

You get 'em Nene.......
good to see you come around.


She's right boy's....this one has been done before.

But I'll repeat it anyways. Work on becoming who you want to be....it will attract someone who is into to you. I've been alone for a while now, but I have had some interested women. But I am holding out for one that is into the new way of life that i am going after. Above all, confidence does them in. Have the courage to walk up and say HI. Skip the mistake I keep making, and wait to ask them for some of their time until the second or third meeting. Practice makes perfect.......so go out there right away and get told no a few times. It will help build a tolerance. Once you have the tolerance, you will appear to be confident.

RE: fave feel good movie of all time

Fight Club....Tyler Durden is the poo.

RE: If you had one wish what would it be?

That my brain would work and start understanding: trigonometry, physiology, solidworks, and physics computations. (i know its a bit much, but come on.... as long as I am wishing I am gonna shoot for the stars!

RE: Never ask a woman.......................

What has two thumbs and loves head........this guy!

RE: Good Girls OR Bad Girls...

Well, I would have thought a good girl. Someone with morales and takes care of themselves. But.....I am in a school that is like Revenge of the Nerds gone madness. A lot of the people here have their own perfect little world going on. Part of me wants to corrupt these innocents, but I am trying to change that part of me.
So give me a bad girl, who is changing and trying to better herself. No, wait a minute........that might be too much like me.........

Would it surprise anyone if I said I don't know what I want?