Why Do Bad Guy's Always Get The Girl??? (18)
colinjames64 Threads 649 PostsI'm A Really Nice Guy.I Don't Beat Up Women I respect Them and Although being threw alot of Bad Exsperinces I've always bein the Good Guy But the women I fall in LOVE with allways go for the Bad Guy Why? I Love Women Taught to me by My Grandmother and MUM,But you women think you can change a Guy Why not go for someone that would love and respect you,Why the Hastlse.Who doesn't trust GOOD GUY"S??
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WHY????
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ColinJames,
You hang in there friend. The right woman will be along. The woman that is looking for exactly what you have to offer.
You hang in there friend. The right woman will be along. The woman that is looking for exactly what you have to offer.
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Hey Man I've Wore the Leather and the Babes just run away.Just need a Babe thats into alot of Trouble!
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face it guys, none of us will ever unsterstand them, if we did, we d be the smartest man on the planet.The only thing i know is that some day, we will find the right one.
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Bad guys don't always get the gal, even when they do, it doesn't last.
It only seems contradictory what women "want." Women are attracted to bad boys because of the signals that bad boys send. Women want a nice guy because that only makes sense. Now the short of it is that attraction is WAY more powerful than a want. Unfortunately for most people, nice guys get so intensly focused on the want part, that they ignore, or dissmiss the attract part. What is it that bad boys do to attract women?
1) they don't let women determine their emotions.
2) They show that they are in high demand/valueable
3) They become a challenge/above them by teasing/insulting/hitting them.****
**** I DO NOT ADVOCATE VIOLENCE TOWARDS WOMEN****
You don't need to be a loser to have emotional control over yourself, or show you are in high demand and valuable. Nor do you need to be a jerk to tease women, you just have to be funny.
Some guys will try to sympathize with a woman to make her feel better. That does have it's time and place, but 90% of the time it's just better poke fun at their situation and make em laugh.
It totally turns women on when they see that i am a nice guy that demonstrates bad boy qualities.
It only seems contradictory what women "want." Women are attracted to bad boys because of the signals that bad boys send. Women want a nice guy because that only makes sense. Now the short of it is that attraction is WAY more powerful than a want. Unfortunately for most people, nice guys get so intensly focused on the want part, that they ignore, or dissmiss the attract part. What is it that bad boys do to attract women?
1) they don't let women determine their emotions.
2) They show that they are in high demand/valueable
3) They become a challenge/above them by teasing/insulting/hitting them.****
**** I DO NOT ADVOCATE VIOLENCE TOWARDS WOMEN****
You don't need to be a loser to have emotional control over yourself, or show you are in high demand and valuable. Nor do you need to be a jerk to tease women, you just have to be funny.
Some guys will try to sympathize with a woman to make her feel better. That does have it's time and place, but 90% of the time it's just better poke fun at their situation and make em laugh.
It totally turns women on when they see that i am a nice guy that demonstrates bad boy qualities.
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I always go for the good guys but most girls look at dating as finding someone to look good with not who they wanna take home and keep! Frankly damn advertizements and tv make it look like the fun life is only when your being naughty or bad... Smart girls like nice guys and nice guys finish first!
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Then people should get into this web site and get too know their neibours...................
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MORE whining...spend the time going after the girl. Yup, might not happen again and again, but do it. How many whining nice guy threads are there now?
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Hey, not to worry! I've been where you are at. Women want a 'bad' boy 'cause he looks good on HER arm...and she THINKS she can change him (ya, sure...).
I'm a good, poilte, well mannered man myself. On here I can act different, but in life itself, the person that 'you' are will never change; women forget that. These guys are in effect control freaks, but whatever works I guess......
I'm a good, poilte, well mannered man myself. On here I can act different, but in life itself, the person that 'you' are will never change; women forget that. These guys are in effect control freaks, but whatever works I guess......
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Do you guys talk yourselves into this crap just to have something blame? Have you actually READ what the women have repeatedly said on here? hmmmm...are we listening. The fact that you compare us to the very tiny handful of women in entire populations boggles my mind...
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hey! i'm here, lol...been a trip for sure. how ya been, hon?
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Ut oh Nene, for the first time in a LOOONNNGGG time I'm gonna have to slap you. In my situation, all the nice girls live out of state! Meanwhile all the bad girls (and cute lesbians at work) are all around me! Its frustrating to have to go thru daily life knowing that everywhere I go there is no woman for me (locally). Anyway, yes we talk ourselves into it cause its almost true (for me atleast). Maybe I should try and be gay for a day lol jking!
Allen
Allen
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I'm just wondering define "bad guy" and "good guy"?
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You get 'em Nene.......
good to see you come around.
She's right boy's....this one has been done before.
But I'll repeat it anyways. Work on becoming who you want to be....it will attract someone who is into to you. I've been alone for a while now, but I have had some interested women. But I am holding out for one that is into the new way of life that i am going after. Above all, confidence does them in. Have the courage to walk up and say HI. Skip the mistake I keep making, and wait to ask them for some of their time until the second or third meeting. Practice makes perfect.......so go out there right away and get told no a few times. It will help build a tolerance. Once you have the tolerance, you will appear to be confident.
good to see you come around.
She's right boy's....this one has been done before.
But I'll repeat it anyways. Work on becoming who you want to be....it will attract someone who is into to you. I've been alone for a while now, but I have had some interested women. But I am holding out for one that is into the new way of life that i am going after. Above all, confidence does them in. Have the courage to walk up and say HI. Skip the mistake I keep making, and wait to ask them for some of their time until the second or third meeting. Practice makes perfect.......so go out there right away and get told no a few times. It will help build a tolerance. Once you have the tolerance, you will appear to be confident.
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I honestly think that the girls go for the thrill, adventure,and all of the other things that bad boys can give.
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ooooo....poor little colly boy....come here ill give you hug....all better now??????....
todays your lucky day.....im gonna help you out....you need it....
ok ....so you say that girls like bad boys....well the solution is simple....get a t shirt made up.....saying im a bad boy....wear it everyday....in no time ull have all the girls....
and if that doesnt work....get a one way ticket to fairy land.....in fairy land women only like nice guys....it your kinda place.....ull fit right in...
no need to thank me.....its my pleasure....
todays your lucky day.....im gonna help you out....you need it....
ok ....so you say that girls like bad boys....well the solution is simple....get a t shirt made up.....saying im a bad boy....wear it everyday....in no time ull have all the girls....
and if that doesnt work....get a one way ticket to fairy land.....in fairy land women only like nice guys....it your kinda place.....ull fit right in...
no need to thank me.....its my pleasure....
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Wave,
I hope you enjoy a wonderful Easter Holiday.
Dix.
;)
I hope you enjoy a wonderful Easter Holiday.
Dix.
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