You know what, Jake? There is an easy answer to this question. It all depends on the mood and the atmosphere. That is why variety is the spice of life. If you are in a laid back, romantic ambience, we are probably looking at a slow , sensual encounter. If this is a spontaneous moment, it could be soemthing that is very intense and over rather quickly. You kind of have to go with the moment. There are positive things about both.
Yessssss,Joanne is right and there are men out there that have that really slow pace.....I really like that sometimes....It is more intimate sometimes rather then to bend the girl over the bed and pull her head back while pumping at the speed of light...;-)))
Wow, Marcy hope no one ask me to stand up anytime soon. That kind of "did it" to me :-)))) But you two are right, sometimes the quick draw is great and sometimes the all nighter is awesome. ALl depends on the mood and hoping both are in the same mood is also a nail biter :-))))
Hallo Jake,yes this means the mood and the slow pace doesnt last all night ,lol...But the fast really can only last for some minutes...;-))Wouldnt you agree,lol...But I am not saying either are preffered more then the other just the mood...I mean when you are in a resturant and want a quicki it is not realistic to want a slow screw...;-))
Isn't it like music? You are supposed to match your pulse rate. But then you can go half-time if you want to, still matching your pulse rate, but one stoke per two beats of your heart. Isn't that the theory? Then you speed up naturally as you get more excited.
It has been a long long time, but I seem to remember liking half time for most of it then slipping into high gear just at the end. Does that make sense to anyone?
I personally like it hard and fast and rough..i dont care what the mood is because we might start off slow, but in the end it can get pretty interesting.
First time , slow and sensual; second time , hard and not real fast , but more speed than before. Third time , mix it up. Then fall sleep with arms wrapped , or whatever's comfortable for both.
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