Honesty means telling the truth even if it is going to hurt the person you care for. If you are going to have a love that will last a lifetime you will have to develop trust and friendship though complete honesty. If the time comes where the honesty is lost, all of the other elements friendship, loyalty, trust all come tumbling down. Honesty is the most important element to finding a lasting soulmate.
Hello Jess, Welcome back to everyone!!! Well at least those who were fortunate enough to make it back!!!LOL.......... Hopefully we can still have fun here!!
By the way, I just love how that picture says take me!!!! Nice!!!! It's like you need a great big cyber hug and I will send one now!!!LOL Nice to see you all!!!
I had to stop by just to see Joanie again, this was the perfect thread to do it...... As for the thread my ex wife was 6 years older than me!!! So sure it can happen and does happen!!! Age is just a number just ask Joanie!!!LOL
I think it is just a number, If you have feelings for someone and them for you, I say you would regret it if you at least didn't take the chance to find out!!
I for one think people have more than one soulmate. I think if you thought she was your soul mate and she chose someone else, she really was not your soul mate. If she was chances are she would have stayed....... I think you should go on and believe it was most likely for the best, and your soul mate is still out there somewhere..... Stay optimistic.....
Just let your feeling do the work, I will rule out nothing. What if your only soul mate is in another country. It would be sad if you didn't take the chance to find out. It is only a plane ride to see. If it doesn't work out you still would have a nice vacation.
I hate to fight, but if we have to, I want to clear the air as fast as possible. I cannot stand being upset for extended periods of time. It tears me up. I need quick resolution to the problems.
I think you should let your heart and your feelings dictate that. You will know what you should do when the time is right. Obviously it would be better if she lived say 2 states away then across the world !!!!!!LOL
There you go, another thing for me. I would never let my feelings be public on here again. It totally interfered with the process. I will be keeping my relationships private in these forums in the future. There is not a need for help from anyone on my decision making. I am capable of making these decisions on my own. Plus, the next thing you know you have a jealous lover nipping at your heals. I will keep this private from now on!!!
I am with you on all those points! Let's get it done this time around, our Country is desperate need for someone who will take care of the home, instead of a greedy politician who is only concerned with spreading Capitalism around the globe.. It will not be easy, but together we can get it done......
That is what I like about it.... While your time together will be limited by your visit. There is little time to for much else but excitement about the connection. Therefore, I am open to this. Plus the fact that I love to travel is another big plus. Alot of people say they could not do this, but for me it seems like it would be ok!
Well the country needs a change that is clear. We will have to unite to achieve this. I am sure you know we have another dreaded Bush in the wings in Florida licking his chops to get the Presidency Next. It will take unification of the lower class, plus lets hope they can count the votes correctly in Florida this time.... I really didn't thing Kerry ever stood a chance of winning, although I did vote for him.
Maybe it is just me, but it seems a long distance lover would be so cool. I don't want to control or get jealous in love. I think it would be nice to have something to look forward to. Traveling to see this person, anticipating the future. Nurturing the Trust and Friendship so that when we do meet the excitement would be unrivaled!! I understand it would be difficult. I am divorced and not sure about marriage again, this seems like it would be ok with me. Haven't done it yet, so not sure how it would go?
To me in addition to this Patriot Act crap, i am very saddened at the way America is viewed by the rest of the World these days. Bush the globetrotting Cowboy, is just a puppet for the right wing conservitives. He seems like the light is on, but no one is home. Perfect for a puppet!!!!
Dreams are how you channel the spirtual world, you must always have one that is attainable. That way the physical World cannot chain you, Your spirit must live on to achieve the dream. Hope this makes sense! The Physical world is forced aside in search of the achievable dream.
RE: honesty
Honesty means telling the truth even if it is going to hurt the person you care for. If you are going to have a love that will last a lifetime you will have to develop trust and friendship though complete honesty. If the time comes where the honesty is lost, all of the other elements friendship, loyalty, trust all come tumbling down. Honesty is the most important element to finding a lasting soulmate.