I think this a very interesting issue that it concerns to all of us who are looking for a lasting love, romantic relationship. And expression the thoughts and experinces might help us, well that is what I hoping for.
I read this book once called "how to light his fire" basically it was about staying romantic and keeping love going. One thing is said was to make sure when mate comes home from work kiss for at least 10 secs everyday.
It had a lot of fun things in it. I remember once for my finance I went to his work and literally filled his car with balloons. Inside each balloon was a note why I loved him. I then put a note on his care window for all to see... with a needle taped to it and he could not even get in the car without popping some balloons. Funny thing is his boss came out and seen me..had a great laugh.. I pulled up in front of his house about 10 mins after he was expected home to see him popping balloons and almost crapped my pants cause his dad was helping and oh man there was real personal stuff on those notes lol.
Pfffttttt well depends on the guy.. married him and now want divorce.. lol.. tried the kissing thing.. worked for us for few yrs anyway.. just got to stay with it. I was one who encouraged it.. he never cares or worries about anything to do with me.
I don;t think he was impressed over the balloons.. he was really shy and i think i embarrassed him. Oh well I tried right!
Be willing to say I am sorry. Be willing to put the relationship first. Be willing to wait until the other one is willing to forgive. Be willing to understand even when the bad days come and they will that all things pass. The relationship must mean more than than the two individuals. This is if the relationship can be saved. Be willing to seek outside intervention. Be willing to submit to what the counselor is saying. My best thinking got me here.
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