Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage? ( Archived) (78)

Oct 16, 2005 4:40 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
sincerety
sinceretysinceretyMiami, USA21 Threads 438 Posts
I think this a very interesting issue that it concerns to all of us who are looking for a lasting love, romantic relationship. And expression the thoughts and experinces might help us, well that is what I hoping for.
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Oct 16, 2005 4:49 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
Imagination, communication, and if all else fails, the combo of those and a good library;)
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Oct 16, 2005 5:04 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
migivadamsbusted
migivadamsbustedmigivadamsbustedhoward cnty, USA15 Threads 1,542 Posts
always keep it going! don't let the magic and romance die.
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Oct 16, 2005 5:06 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
CrashNo2
CrashNo2CrashNo2Fairborn, USA13 Threads 920 Posts
Threaten divorce! lol
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Oct 16, 2005 5:51 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
sincerety
sinceretysinceretyMiami, USA21 Threads 438 Posts
Crash on the contrary getting tips to avoid it!
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Oct 16, 2005 5:57 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
Illuminate
IlluminateIlluminateKathleen, Georgia USA21 Threads 1,878 Posts
Take a break away from one another for a short time
to redefine your own identity and indualviduality, because the magic comes from within yourself.
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Oct 16, 2005 5:58 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
lovely38
lovely38lovely38Peterborough, Canada3 Threads 168 Posts
I read this book once called "how to light his fire" basically it was about staying romantic and keeping love going. One thing is said was to make sure when mate comes home from work kiss for at least 10 secs everyday.

It had a lot of fun things in it. I remember once for my finance I went to his work and literally filled his car with balloons. Inside each balloon was a note why I loved him. I then put a note on his care window for all to see... with a needle taped to it and he could not even get in the car without popping some balloons. Funny thing is his boss came out and seen me..had a great laugh.. I pulled up in front of his house about 10 mins after he was expected home to see him popping balloons and almost crapped my pants cause his dad was helping and oh man there was real personal stuff on those notes lol.
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Oct 16, 2005 6:02 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
I know how! But im not telling so there!!
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Oct 16, 2005 6:04 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
migivadamsbusted
migivadamsbustedmigivadamsbustedhoward cnty, USA15 Threads 1,542 Posts
really? guess that make you one hell of a catch...??????
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Oct 16, 2005 6:04 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
sincerety
sinceretysinceretyMiami, USA21 Threads 438 Posts
Great imagination lovely38, bet he will always remember you!
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Oct 16, 2005 6:06 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
sincerety
sinceretysinceretyMiami, USA21 Threads 438 Posts
wheresbob why teasing then?
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Oct 16, 2005 6:06 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
Breaks can be good.
Redefining? Dunno...if that means changing who you are completely? Not sure that benefits.

Knowing BEFORE you get into it what commitment and vows mean.
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Oct 16, 2005 6:07 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
Yes i am a great catch!!
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Oct 16, 2005 6:08 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
migivadamsbusted
migivadamsbustedmigivadamsbustedhoward cnty, USA15 Threads 1,542 Posts
and I suppose you are a king to?
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Oct 16, 2005 6:09 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
lovely38
lovely38lovely38Peterborough, Canada3 Threads 168 Posts
Pfffttttt well depends on the guy.. married him and now want divorce.. lol.. tried the kissing thing.. worked for us for few yrs anyway.. just got to stay with it. I was one who encouraged it.. he never cares or worries about anything to do with me.

I don;t think he was impressed over the balloons.. he was really shy and i think i embarrassed him. Oh well I tried right!
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Oct 16, 2005 6:11 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
Illuminate
IlluminateIlluminateKathleen, Georgia USA21 Threads 1,878 Posts
Not completly, just remembering and getting back to that place of the original spark....Sheesh
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Oct 16, 2005 6:15 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
Yes busted i am a king !!
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Oct 16, 2005 6:16 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
Yeah, I know. But, some don't know when to stop redefining...I get ya.

Remember that crappy days happen.
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Oct 16, 2005 6:22 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
Be willing to say I am sorry. Be willing to put the relationship first. Be willing to wait until the other one is willing to forgive. Be willing to understand even when the bad days come and they will that all things pass. The relationship must mean more than than the two individuals. This is if the relationship can be saved. Be willing to seek outside intervention. Be willing to submit to what the counselor is saying. My best thinking got me here.
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Oct 16, 2005 6:24 PM CST Any input how to maintain the magic and romance after marriage?
"yawn"
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