Oh ROy get over it.. you told me you would never do that again.. that nene would never return your love.. that you were done with her.. you told me you would use new name so she not know you on.. that you would avoid her.. what did I say.. I said NO..RIGHT???? Yes... think hard.. I said I was not going to be blamed for you cutting friends off or the forums..right?? YES! Then tonight you tell me I am controlling.. if I am so freaking controlling why did I not let you do that.. change names???? How wacked are you? Yes so sweet.. good with words.. but no one tell you maybe you are in wrong ..right? Do not expect me to give up everything thing here and come there with your heart belonging to nene.. ya I got mad.. ya I shut down computer.. but thought.. hey this not right and its not.. its your guilt that hurts you.. NOT ME!
You have to take time to listen and care.. don't butt heads.. your partner is saying things to you because they are feeling.. even if you don't agree with how they feel.. try and find out why they feel that way and meet half way.
You got it Roy.. now if you can teach that to the young inexperienced men.. before they screw up.. all us women be happy.. thing is everyone learns the hard way :(((((
Oh Lil.. you are young and have so much of life left.. right now seems like the end of the world.. been there.. have scars to prove it.
When I was 18 I was date a 24 year old.. had his own business.. to very very expensive cars... had everything.. man of my dreams.. I was quiet, very shy girl.. no confidence.. him and his friends had all been through college were very successful at their young ages .. me I was still finishing highschool and working at a variety store.. they had social parties.. large gatherings.. not my thing.. we had more fun watching movies.. going out to dinner.. parking and making out.. we were happy together.. he start looking at rings so I found out later and had been suggesting a house.. driving around looking.. well his friends found out he was going to ask me to marry him and confessed they did not like me.. that I was not right and did not fit in the "freind" group and he picked them over me. Broke my heart for long time.. it was so hard to get over. My heart was part of his life. I wanted him so bad. After that I thought even less of myself and made other bad mistkes.. it was shortly and desperately after that I was willing to have anyone want me.. I ended up pregnant with my first daughter.. almost 20 by that time. Not knowing whos baby it was. You see I was so desperate to keep him and him not having anyone he would ask for secret dates from his friends.. we would go out of town to dinner, the movies to hotels.. yes I was being used but did I care. NOPE! I was getting to spend time with him.. was I fooling myself? YEP! He wanted me until he could find another.. but in my foolish state I thought well maybe he will realize I am worth keeping. Never happened.. we starting fighting.. I was angry .. I tried to hide it but I couldn't. I started finding comfort with a man I did not love because I did not want to be alone.. found out I was pregnant .. WHAT A MESS I MADE!
You can take your problem and lead it from that one to another.. or you can see its not your fault.. as it is his problem and his lose. Have confidence and know in live there are going to be trials and mistakes made.. there will probably be several men you love before you find the one you want. Don't settle! Please never settle.. I have did that many times.. it will not work! At first you will be happy but sooner or later you will want for more or the right one will pop into your life and you will hope you had not settled. Be confident and you will find. At your age and I have been there I know exactly the pain you feel.. you have so many choices.. things will come.. be patient.. be happy. Laugh, have fun.. go out with friends.. smiling attracts.. eventually you will forget. I always say.. out of sight and out of mind.. move on hon.
Want you to know I know your here for me Want you to know I am here for you too Want you to know I use your shoulder to cry on Want you to know you have my shoulder too Want you to know I feel I can talk to you Want you to know you can talk to me too Want you to know I know you care Want you to know I care too Want you to know I know you trust me Want you to know I trust you too Want you to know I know we are friends Want you to know friends are forever Want you to know I know I am in your thoughts Want you to know you are always in mine too Want you to know I know you are by my side Want you to know I am by your side too!
Remember high school.. friend comes to tell you she heard a boy likes you.. then you have the looks in the hall.. passing notes in class.. necking under the stairs.. boy walking past classroom signaling you to come out.. being felt up under stairs.. goofing on bus.. catching a feel.. ya I miss that boyfriend..hours on the phone... all highschool.. same one loved me.. went out 9 times lol.. was still there for me when I had my first daughter.. miss him.
I bet you would be nice to dance with .. I have heard you sing.. sing in my ear ??? lol
Anyway I miss being a teenager..excitement of finding a boy liking you.. kissing all night..(make out sessions lol) snuggling.. all that fluttering feeling!
oh boy adju4.. thats a tough question lol.. personally the bigger the better.. have fun with that.. but no matter to me anyway. Love is whats important.. tenderness.. not how long his thing is.. or how big my breasts are.
I was caught by my mom once.. I was making out with my boyfriend in backyard.. actually we had gotten very worked up.. I was in highschool.. think I was about 18.. and mom came and caught us.. oh boy did I catch heck and my boyfriend ran for the hills lol.
watch put for men alot older than you hon.. they are probably perverts lol When my mom was over for thanksgiving she and I were on here looking at profiles and she would get digusted at the older men looking for women alot younger and not wanting a women even their age.. she would yell out "PIG".. lol never noticed them until she pointed it out.. why would a man not want a woman close to his own age? All because of looks.. thats what I would say.
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RE: Flirting Online - Good or Bad???
I am not one with temper you are.. shaking head.. you love putting blame on others.. anyway.. SHAKING HEAD>> I am not doing this.