Let me in on this one please.......size does matter. Anyone who says it doesn't (if a woman) must have always been fortunate enough to have the pleasure of a good size. If a man says it doesn't matter, he must be lacking.
I hope things work out for you. You seem very sweet and I can relate so much with what you're talking about concerning the bond you have with this guy. The one thing I learned about my situation is my old boyfriend will never be able to commit to me or anyone else. He can admit he cares about me but has been burned himself really bad by an ex wife and just doesn't trust people. It's a shame that people can't let go of past hurts and move on. It's such a waste. Anytime you need to talk about it, I'll take it seriously, because I know how it can hurt.
It happens with me too. With an ex boyfriend. He too would run when things got serious. In my case though I would notice a pattern of when I would think of him and he would call or something. I think I knew it was about time for that to happen. That's something you might watch for. However, I'm glad he stopped the drinking thing. I always try to watch the situations I'm in because I've been in some where I had to learn the hard way. I wouldn't want that for you. Try not to read anything in to him coming by or anything. Sometimes people shy away and will eventually come to their senses. Other times they will never be able to commit no matter how much they care. Sometimes people like to keep you hanging by a thread also. Just be careful. Go with the flow and don't wait around for him. Good luck to you. By the way, my name is Donna
I don't think we're necessarily talking about a man not being able to get it up here as the one person wrote. I think there is much more involved. We can tell if it's up or not and the ones I've been with are not having a problem in that area.
I know what you are feeling. The only thing I can say is to keep your chin up, feel good about who you are. It hurts like everything at the time, but as you know time takes care of the wound. Try not to let any man, or anyone make you feel a certain way. We are responsible for our own feelings. Even though it hurts, keep telling yourself you will be ok and there is someone else out there for you, and you will find them. Try also,if this person had any bad qualities to write them down. When the good memories start flooding in, read what you have written. Believe me it does help. You can find something bad if you try.
I have come up with the same problem with men. They say things such as "your so different than anyone I've known before" or "we just can't right now. I'm afraid I'll disappoint you, or hurt you". Or, "I have feelings for you, I just can't committ now". Believe me I've heard it all. I even went to a counselor because I thought there was something wrong with me. By looking at your picture, you seem to be a very pretty woman. I was told that it's hard for pretty women to land a GOOD, HANDSOME man. They feel intimidated. Men find me attractive. I wonder if there is some truth in this because I've heard other pretty women say the same thing. I guess they're afraid they can't live up to what we would expect. Who knows? I'm still trying to figure it out myself. I would like for a man to answer that one.
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RE: Does Size Matter (Women Only)
Let me in on this one please.......size does matter. Anyone who says it doesn't (if a woman) must have always been fortunate enough to have the pleasure of a good size. If a man says it doesn't matter, he must be lacking.