I would never change the man Im with yet he wants me to be his perfect woman, he wants me to have a car he wants, not what i want, Im always wrong according to him, probably the reason why my feelings have changed for him, maybe I should be with a man less high maintainence
I always feel like I should leave cuz i never feel im good enough to the guy im with but then i feel if i stay nobody else gets him, only i do, I dunno its weird like that
Maybe you're right shelly, maybe he doesn't love me at all and its probably time i kicked him to the kerb, its so hard to let go of a man you love so dearly, i just dont know where i stand with him, he said he loves me over the phone and in txt but when it comes to being with me in person, he wont say a word and when i say it too him, all he can do is put his head on my should and shrug and say ahuh
It's almost like he's a caveman or "Adam" from Adam & Eve, he wouldn't have a clue how to respond to things, everything is new to him. . . Like me making every move, like holding his hand, kissing him,hugging etc. I thought he would tell me how he feels, like if im doing something he doesn't seem to pull away but he hasn't returned anything yet so maybe he's too afraid to tell me what he likes and doesn't like, we've been together for almost 4 month and i felt right well it's time to tell him i love him so far so good as he hasn't runaway so im guessing he feels the same, I dunno. But he still hasn't said anything back yet not even an "I love you", back, so yeah I have absolutely no idea what's goin on in this fella's head, its confusing me and I dont know what to do about it, like people keep saying kick him to the kerb but my heart says stay and give him a chance because I can teach him things, seeing as he is new to the whole having a girlfriend/being in a reltionship. He a very hard case to crack
I do wanna tell my man how i really feel, just one thing because I'm his first ever girlfriend, he's never been kissed or touch, he's never had someone who cares about him and loves him so I'm umming and R'ing about everything cuz i dont know how he'll react
yeah but seeing as im him very first girlfriend i don't wanna put pressure on him, like even I'm finding it hard to make moves, like ok I've been in relatioships but they've never turned out, I finally feel like this is "the relationship", I dont wanna let this one go... I'm finding it hard to express how i feel to him, considering everything is new too him
The good thing about him is he's not like your normal "typical male", he's so much different and I love him for it, I just wish I could figure him out, he's such a mystery, Like I make the moves, just wish he would try doing the same back like I would appreciate it if he hugged me or kissed me every once in a while but nah he doesn't
Hi there, I was just wondering how I would go about getting a man to open up and not be so shy around me. The Situation: I've been dating a guy for almost 4 months now, he seems to open up more in txt messaging more then he does when we are actually together. . . He seems all romantic and even says he loves me over txt and phone conversation but in person he is just so shy and I have no idea why. . . He's 23 never had a relationship let alone a woman who cares about him before so maybe this could be inputting it. . . Any ideas or suggestions on what do to do as I don't wanna lose this fella...??
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RE: six pack or junk in the trunk?
Haha 6packs only last so long, men do get old and all that muscle turns to fat anyways