Its simple there afraid, because they get 100 emails a day from every guy out there. They enjoy the search and although in there 40's they always think there is something better. I have been on many sites for 13 years and when I started I had a six pack and was a stud and dated allot more then now, but even then I was not a tool like most guys are and yet still I am single. I am sure some of it is my fault, but honestly it goes back to my original answer women are fickle as hell. Oh and to the Aussie woman, I have stood on my own and will continue to do so and its not just men who are better with a woman a woman needs a man as well. They just wait so long that in the end they settle or stay single and lonely.
For the last time I said I can work out and you all are so phoney, I just dont want a woman bigger than me. Again focusing on one point of the entire thing and not reading my responses. To be honest I was venting and now this is more fun. Go ahead trash on, this is the most fun I have had in a week.LOL
For the ones who decided to put up something useful and to add meaning I thank you for taking time.
I have said I have flaws did you not read the full post or any of my comments and I thought you were done responding so be done.
This was just put up there as my opinion and applies to both males and females. Look I have worked out and looked just like all the studs with a six pack and now I dont, but by no means am I not attractive nor have I not had success in dating. I am simply stating some facts and just want people to be honest on their profiles. If it does not apply to you then you should not get so defensive. You dont know me or how I act from ADAM and to be honest you can not know someone thru an email because their is no emotion. So again if you dont like it dont be on the thread. I would rather see people who are honest. Is my opinion perfect NO, but its mine.
Thanks for a geniune response. Like I said this was suppose to be mostly what I have noticed in the past 12 years of dating. Oh and for the record I have dated plenty of beautiful woman that either I screwed up or their personalities were bad. I just wrote a rant and like I said in one of the points and said numerous times if your offended or feel like making stabs at me then it must be about you.
Lastly I agree some people are on here just to chat. Like I said in another bullet put that so people that want more dont try to email you.
Finally a few people actually took the time to read and process the info. Lastly like I said about MR. Magoo dont try to slam me or make fun of me cause your the typical male trying to get attention of another guy cause you need a wing man.
Please do tell. Again this is a general catch all that over 90 percent of all men and women fall victim too. How long have I been on this site well 1 year with not one date and that is because of where I live sorry to many 18-20 yr olds on here. But in all I have dated for 12 years.
People read the thing and process it before you comment. Like I said if your giving me negative feedback then it must apply to you. Some of you have good points. I agree in a relationship looks do not always matter that is my point. But you do have to have some physical attraction to begin the process.
Can one person actually sit and take a few minutes to read this.
Oh and by the way to the person I quoted your single too and I can tell why.
Ok first off it is about all of us, me included so read that and get off the paid for. What that was meant is that I have paid for sites ie singlesnet, eharmony etc. Geez
NEWSFLASH: I am burned out, like many of you I have been on this site way to long and these are some truths I have discovered and yes I have been the victim and have done some of the wronging to. So here are some facts.
1. Put the truth in your essay if your looking for a hookup and not a real romance then put that. 2. Realize that if you think your a 9 or 10 thats fine but in any other major city you would be outnumbered and lucky to meet an honest man such as myself. 3. I do not like obesse woman and yes I personally am not perfect and dont expect it but I can go workout for a few months and boom you get the full package. DISCLAIMER: I am not obesse and if your just a bit out of shape or something I am not judging obesse speaks for itself if your bigger than me we would have an issue. I am sure you would not want some 400 lb guy. 4. All woman get tons of email, most guys on here are tools and if you think you got a hot stud or even worse your a cougar most likely he is married, cheats or you will find that he does not have time for you. 5. Dont get upset by an essay or message its not always meant the way you take it. 6. I am very loving and sweet but honest and see tons of you on here all the time, get a man and stick with it already. 7. Dont lead a guy on and tell him your perfect for each other then after the date blow him off, its just wrong and no the pasture is not always greener. 8. If you do not like what I have wrote so far then look in the mirror cause it probably is the truth about you and it should make you think. 9. No one is perfect but may be perfect for you. Stop going for the same type as you have in the past look where it got you now. 10. I have been single a long time I DO NOT need a woman, but I want one. Friends, family etc are important, but nothing replaces a soulmate. 11. Do use the whole I am so busy excuse either. If your that busy with work, school or kids then why are you one here..LOL
I have personally made these mistakes, but I do think many woman do this as well and can not even bother to respond because a guy may not be MR perfect, but then again like I said there still on here so obviously they need to make better choices. Yes I am still here to, but I do not email every woman and I do not date hardly at all anymore.
Again this is just my opinion like it or not. It is meant to be read and thought about. I am sure many well write negative things and thats ok, because it proves it effects you.
NEWSFLASH: I am burned out, like many of you I have been on this site way to long. So here are some facts.
1. Put the truth in your essay if your looking for a hookup and not a real romance then put that. 2. Realize that if you think your a 9 or 10 thats fine but in any other major city you would be outnumbered and lucky to meet an honest man such as myself. 3. I do not like overweight woman and yes I personally am not perfect and dont expect it but I can go workout for a few months and boom you get the full package. Disclaimer I am not looking for a 10 or expect perfection nor should you. 4. All woman get tons of email, most guys on here are tools and if you think you got a hot stud or even worse your a cougar most likely he is married, cheats or you will find that he does not have time for you. 5. Dont get upset by an essay or message its not always meant the way you take it. 6. I am very loving and sweet but honest and see tons of you on here all the time, get a man and stick with it already. 7. Dont lead a guy on and tell him your perfect for each other then after the date blow him off, its just wrong and no the pasture is not always greener. 8. If you do not like what I have wrote so far then look in the mirror cause it probably is the truth about you and it should make you think. 9. No one is perfect but may be perfect for you. Stop going for the same type as you have in the past look where it got you now. 10. I have been single a long time I DO NOT need a woman, but I want one. Friends, family etc are important, but nothing replaces a soulmate. 11. Do use the whole I am so busy excuse either. If your that busy with work, school or kids then why are you one here..LOL
I have personally made these mistakes, but I do think many woman do this as well and can not even bother to respond because a guy may not be MR perfect, but then again like I said there still on here so obviously they need to make better choices. Yes I am still here to, but I do not email every woman and I do not date hardly at all anymore.
Again this is just my opinion like it or not. It is meant to be read and thought about. I am sure many well write negative things and thats ok, because it proves it effects you.
NEWSFLASH: I am burned out, like many of you I have been on this site way to long and have been a paying customer at one time. So here are some facts. 1. Put the truth in your essay if your looking for a hookup and not a real romance then put that. 2. Realize that if you think your a 9 or 10 thats fine but in any other major city you would be outnumbered and lucky to meet an honest man such as myself. 3. I do not like overweight woman and yes I personally am not perfect and dont expect it but I can go workout for a few months and boom you get the full package. 4. All woman get tons of email, most guys on here are tools and if you think you got a hot stud or even worse your a cougar most likely he is married, cheats or you will find that he does not have time for you. 5. Dont get upset by an essay or message its not always meant the way you take it. 6. I am very loving and sweet but honest and see tons of you on here all the time, get a man and stick with it already. 7. Dont lead a guy on and tell him your perfect for each other then after the date blow him off, its just wrong and no the pasture is not always greener. 8. If you do not like what I have wrote so far then look in the mirror cause it probably is the truth about you and it should make you think. 9. No one is perfect but may be perfect for you. Stop going for the same type as you have in the past look where it got you now. 10. I have been single a long time I DO NOT need a woman, but I want one. Friends, family etc are important, but nothing replaces a soulmate. 11. Do use the whole I am so busy excuse either. If your that busy with work, school or kids then why are you one here..LOL
I have personally made these mistakes, but I do think many woman do this as well and can not even bother to respond because a guy may not be MR perfect, but then again like I said there still on here so obviously they need to make better choices. Yes I am still here to, but I do not email every woman and I do not date hardly at all anymore.
Again this is just my opinion like it or not. It is meant to be read and thought about. I am sure many well write negative things and thats ok, because it proves it effects you.
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RE: WHY ARE WOMAN AFRAID TO COMMIT
Its simple there afraid, because they get 100 emails a day from every guy out there. They enjoy the search and although in there 40's they always think there is something better. I have been on many sites for 13 years and when I started I had a six pack and was a stud and dated allot more then now, but even then I was not a tool like most guys are and yet still I am single. I am sure some of it is my fault, but honestly it goes back to my original answer women are fickle as hell. Oh and to the Aussie woman, I have stood on my own and will continue to do so and its not just men who are better with a woman a woman needs a man as well. They just wait so long that in the end they settle or stay single and lonely.