Ah yes my dear but what started this thread was the fact that someone on a few years younger than me who was persuing me called me a cougar that is why I asked what the definition of the cougar was.
Okay so in another post someone is looking for a cougar. I recently was called a cougar. I don't think I am a cougar. So my question is, at what age does a woman become a cougar?
Then I would say that you are chatting with the wrong kind of women. Even if I didn't have kids of my own I would welcome dating a single dad. It shows they have a sense of responsibility and sensitivity. Like everything else in life, there are those ignorant people out there that want to look down on your life because it is not what they would choose for themselves. Chin up hon, you will find the right girl eventually
Not all single people are seeking a relationship at all and are perfectly happy being that way. I have been happy for almost 3 years being single and now I am looking for someone to be happy with not to bring me happiness. I will be happy with or without someone.
So then you should have stated that you are not attracted to those who look out of shape. I am one of those with a few extra uonds added on from having children. I have had plenty of guys that are in shape tell me that I am very attractive to them even with bit of a gut. I am active in the fact of yoga and walking and swimming but I still have a gut. Did you ever stop to think that maybe the person that you find unattractive because of their weight might have tried everything they can to lose the weight and have had no luck?
I participated in a psych eval last year. I have done it in the past and thought nothing of it when I did this one. Though they would find my depression (which was bad at the time and about to get worse with my grandmas death the following month) and my anxiety. What I was not preparedto hear was that I was also diagnosed with borderline personality disorder which I had most of my life. I had just turned 31 when I found this out. There was a flood of thoughts and emotions going through my head. I was angry that it took so long to be diagnosed, hopeful that I now know whats wrong with my head and fearful because of the stigma that a person gets labeled with once they are found to have a mental condition. But now, a year later, I am back to thinking that what other people think about me doesn't matter. If they want to be ignorant and be fearful of me because of my mental disorder then it is their loss. I am not going to limit myself in being who I am because of the ignorance of others.
Well since many of the guys in my life already refer to me as one of the guys, I don't think that much would change for me. Although the scaring the crap out of old boyfriends sounds fun, I know it would freak my kids out. So in the end I would have to say, I would spend most of my time trying to explain to my kids about the fact that for some freak reason mommy is now a daddy
I am sorry but if someone is upset that you spend time with your children no matter who the other parent is, then that person with the issue should be kicked to the curb. At least I know I would kick them to the curb because noone is going to come before my kids. I won't even bring someone I am dating around them until it becomes serious. I don't think I should let them get attached to someone who may not be around for very long
Sorry it was supposed to read that I couldn't save both.
I remember that story and yes while it had to have been a very difficult decision for the parents I think they made the best decision in my opinion.
As the question was asked to me it was like an if your house was on fire type question. I could not chose one of my kids over the other. My kids are 10 and 6. I would rather sacrifice myself instead of having one of my kids lose their chance at life.
I actually had a friend who has lost a child ask me that question not long ago although the way she asked it was a little more morbid. Basically if I could save only one of my 2 kids which one would I save and I could say both. There is definitely no way for me to answer that question. I could not pick just one of my kids to live. The question asked by Sampe1967 is not morbid or wrong as I see it because he is basically asking if you would sacrifice yourself or your children. Which in most cases a parent would say that they would sacrifice themselves to save their children. I know I would. But there are such cases when a parent sacrifices their children for their own selfish needs whether it is literally or figuratively. I have seen plenty of unfit parents out there put their own needs befire their children eating, having clothes, having a place to stay, and so on.
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RE: Mistakes men make in bed!
That is why it is best to stick with stuff like baby, you can't screw up and say the wrong name if you aren't using names lol