Okay, fair enough. There are extremes in both directions. Sometimes it can be an unhealthy thing, while other times a pretty facade can be shallow and false. Perhaps it could not hurt us to be aware of straying to far in either direction.
However, as I said there are different types, some live in a highly emotional world and there are matches for them, while others seem to maintain a seemingly light nature and there are those for them as well.
I believe I understand the several points you were making, but perhaps soft fuzzy tipped arrows have their place as well.
Personally I would want to know what was important to a woman I was interested in for this way I could better understand who she was, perhaps even aid one another in that department. However, there are lots of different kinds of people, so many women and men might want the same things gardenhackle does from a relationship, while others may be more attuned on an emotional level.
But, I would agree with a general statement that such things are a turn off to all men, nor would I suggest all people dislike narcissism.
Well we all have a certain level of being critical, but more then that a way of expressing it. I have a few placements in Virgo including my Ascendant and I find that I do often have critical initial reaction, (First thoughts.) but that doesn't mean I "criticize" right away. But, it is a step in the thought process. And there are plenty of other filters along the way before I come up with a final opinion or decide what to say about something.
If you are curious about placements AngelinBali posted a link to a great site, but this link takes you right to the page for creating a chart. It's pretty simple.
And for the record not every Gemini you meet is exactly the same, not every Virgo. That is just a small piece of the puzzle. If you read up on Virgo's you might find some aspects are like you, some are not. Everybody is a bit unique.
Yeah Virgo's could take down the critic level, and Gemini could learn a little flexibility, but odd mixtures happen all the time.
I've had times where letting go wasn't easy, but i was never because one of us did something bad to the other. I guess that was more of a heart wound. Oddly the worst hits didn't come from relationships.
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RE: No one wants to hear about how hurt you've been.
Okay, fair enough. There are extremes in both directions. Sometimes it can be an unhealthy thing, while other times a pretty facade can be shallow and false. Perhaps it could not hurt us to be aware of straying to far in either direction.However, as I said there are different types, some live in a highly emotional world and there are matches for them, while others seem to maintain a seemingly light nature and there are those for them as well.
I believe I understand the several points you were making, but perhaps soft fuzzy tipped arrows have their place as well.