hey guys just wonderin can anyone share some light on my situation.. basically found a long lost childhood friend on FB... been texting the past week , met up with him & discovered very strong feelings for him. hes 20 and im 24 (!?) , ive been sick all week so hes been texting me 24/7 to see how I am. Was at a concert last nite having a few and decided to pluck up the courage to tell him how I feel. He said he felt the same (not in so many words though) Both him & me were drunk.. I got a text this morning saying " what was all that bot last nite " .. he thought it was some1 winding him up from my phone...He hasnt said anything about meetingup, surely if ya have feelings for someone ya wanna see them?? I know Id only love to see him rite now..
Do I sit tight and wait for him to make the move or take the bull by the horns???
I just need to vent some anger on this!! Im so sick of being single.. Gets me down by times wondering am I not good enough?? grrr im just so peed off...
first of all i dont want him to be made out to be a cheat or anything like it, i'm happy 4him tat he's moving on, and yes it is true i was talking to him this morning! he's back wit d mother of his kids, i think its lovely that d family are whole now, more luck to them i say. i woz just stating a point that some people can move on faster than others.
Im pretty sure he is , I dont think he would be the type of person to do that, its the same with a few of my friends, they have "married" to another girl or something like that..
Its not bothering me , Im happy for him just thought it was a bit sudden..
Some people have no considerations for other people at all.. ie them exs who leave it a couple of days.. I just wouldnt be able to do that!
Im in shock.. had to get this outta my head.. Being on another dating site recently and was mailing a guy for a bit & met up with him... God on really well but I wasnt attracted to him physically... Lovely bloke with 2 of the nicest kids , hurt me not to stay with him but no point if I was just stayin for the kids.. anways just been on FB and hes announced hes engaged... do all men move that fastly?? this was about 2months ago I last saw him
Thanks to everyone who replied.. Im amazed at how many that actually did.. Im only new to this , Im delighted to see that there is such lovely people on this.
Advise plz!
hey guys just wonderin can anyone share some light on my situation.. basically found a long lost childhood friend on FB... been texting the past week , met up with him & discovered very strong feelings for him. hes 20 and im 24 (!?) , ive been sick all week so hes been texting me 24/7 to see how I am. Was at a concert last nite having a few and decided to pluck up the courage to tell him how I feel. He said he felt the same (not in so many words though) Both him & me were drunk.. I got a text this morning saying " what was all that bot last nite " .. he thought it was some1 winding him up from my phone...He hasnt said anything about meetingup, surely if ya have feelings for someone ya wanna see them?? I know Id only love to see him rite now..
Do I sit tight and wait for him to make the move or take the bull by the horns???