Shocked!! (35)

Jul 20, 2010 3:58 PM CST Shocked!!
shin_1411
shin_1411shin_1411Kildare, Ireland4 Threads 17 Posts
Im in shock.. had to get this outta my head..
Being on another dating site recently and was mailing a guy for a bit & met up with him... God on really well but I wasnt attracted to him physically... Lovely bloke with 2 of the nicest kids , hurt me not to stay with him but no point if I was just stayin for the kids..
anways just been on FB and hes announced hes engaged...
do all men move that fastly??
this was about 2months ago I last saw him confused

men....eh blues
Jul 20, 2010 4:01 PM CST Shocked!!
Silentlust
SilentlustSilentlustGorey, Wexford Ireland18 Threads 1 Polls 2,774 Posts
shin_1411: do all men move that fastly??
this was about 2months ago I last saw him

men....eh


Some men ARE morons....
Jul 20, 2010 4:02 PM CST Shocked!!
Silentlust
SilentlustSilentlustGorey, Wexford Ireland18 Threads 1 Polls 2,774 Posts
Silentlust: Some men ARE morons....


fools. I meant fools.

or foolish,...
Jul 20, 2010 4:03 PM CST Shocked!!
MimiKate
MimiKateMimiKateDublin, Ireland15 Threads 3,666 Posts
shin_1411: Im in shock.. had to get this outta my head..
Being on another dating site recently and was mailing a guy for a bit & met up with him... God on really well but I wasnt attracted to him physically... Lovely bloke with 2 of the nicest kids , hurt me not to stay with him but no point if I was just stayin for the kids..
anways just been on FB and hes announced hes engaged...
do all men move that fastly??
this was about 2months ago I last saw him

men....eh


How long were you seeing him? Maybe he was in that relationship at the same time?dunno
Jul 20, 2010 4:04 PM CST Shocked!!
shin_1411
shin_1411shin_1411Kildare, Ireland4 Threads 17 Posts
SL.. I agree with ya on that one..

Trouble: thats not the answer to everything!laugh
Jul 20, 2010 4:05 PM CST Shocked!!
scriobhneoir
scriobhneoirscriobhneoirCork, Ireland85 Threads 2 Polls 3,276 Posts
Silentlust: Some men ARE morons....


Why just because he got engaged quickly?

Personally Shin I think if you cared for him like you say, you should be happy for him.

That said an engaged status on FB does not necessarily mean he is really engaged, he could be taking the piss.
Jul 20, 2010 4:05 PM CST Shocked!!
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
shin_1411: Im in shock.. had to get this outta my head..
Being on another dating site recently and was mailing a guy for a bit & met up with him... God on really well but I wasnt attracted to him physically... Lovely bloke with 2 of the nicest kids , hurt me not to stay with him but no point if I was just stayin for the kids..
anways just been on FB and hes announced hes engaged...
do all men move that fastly??
this was about 2months ago I last saw him

men....eh


Perhaps he'd been with her (the fiancée) all along and you cemented their relationship.

Think of it as a good deed done and not a lost opportunity.

Ah... who am I kidding roll eyes
Jul 20, 2010 4:06 PM CST Shocked!!
MRMAGIC52
MRMAGIC52MRMAGIC52kilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland6 Threads 1 Polls 69 Posts
shin_1411: Im in shock.. had to get this outta my head..
Being on another dating site recently and was mailing a guy for a bit & met up with him... God on really well but I wasnt attracted to him physically... Lovely bloke with 2 of the nicest kids , hurt me not to stay with him but no point if I was just stayin for the kids..
anways just been on FB and hes announced hes engaged...
do all men move that fastly??
this was about 2months ago I last saw him

men....eh


some men are dickheads i have to say.
Jul 20, 2010 4:06 PM CST Shocked!!
skyblue43
skyblue43skyblue43Dublin, Meath Ireland30 Threads 1 Polls 5,980 Posts
LusciousLibra: Perhaps he'd been with her (the fiancée) all along and you cemented their relationship.

Think of it as a good deed done and not a lost opportunity.

Ah... who am I kidding


The voice of reason!!
Jul 20, 2010 4:07 PM CST Shocked!!
starattax
starattaxstarattaxcarlow, Carlow Ireland6 Threads 181 Posts
yes men move very fast. not all mind but my ex had hooked up within 4 days i mean jeez no time to grieve there haha.confused
Jul 20, 2010 4:08 PM CST Shocked!!
Silentlust
SilentlustSilentlustGorey, Wexford Ireland18 Threads 1 Polls 2,774 Posts
starattax: yes men move very fast. not all mind but my ex had hooked up within 4 days i mean jeez no time to grieve there haha.


That WAS his way of grieving.
Jul 20, 2010 4:10 PM CST Shocked!!
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
Silentlust: That WAS his way of grieving.


Probably.

Like it's said: The best way to get over one person is to get under another
Jul 20, 2010 4:10 PM CST Shocked!!
shin_1411
shin_1411shin_1411Kildare, Ireland4 Threads 17 Posts
WHOA! alot of mixed emotions on this tnyt!
Of course Im happy for him if it is true, I wish him every bit of luck.. Love to see people happy handshake

If the truth be told he probably was with her all along.. wudnt be the 1st time it happened!
Jul 20, 2010 4:11 PM CST Shocked!!
Silentlust
SilentlustSilentlustGorey, Wexford Ireland18 Threads 1 Polls 2,774 Posts
LusciousLibra: Probably.

Like it's said: The best way to get over one person is to get under another


I like your way of thinking.
Jul 20, 2010 4:14 PM CST Shocked!!
skinnyminnypink
skinnyminnypinkskinnyminnypinkKilkenny, Ireland218 Threads 6,300 Posts
starattax: yes men move very fast. not all mind but my ex had hooked up within 4 days i mean jeez no time to grieve there haha.


Yeah and mine had hooked up before he was an 'ex' .. that's why he is .......... laugh laugh
Jul 20, 2010 4:17 PM CST Shocked!!
flick1980
flick1980flick1980Offaly, Ireland27 Threads 1 Polls 1,684 Posts
are you sure he is definately engaged?? just wondering as i have a few friends on facebook that keep changing their relationship just for a laugh and they are completely single. one has it that they are married at the moment and they definately arent married.
Jul 20, 2010 4:19 PM CST Shocked!!
LusciousLibra
LusciousLibraLusciousLibraTramore, Waterford Ireland28 Threads 2 Polls 1,870 Posts
flick1980: are you sure he is definately engaged?? just wondering as i have a few friends on facebook that keep changing their relationship just for a laugh and they are completely single. one has it that they are married at the moment and they definately arent married.


Good point thumbs up

A close friend of mine changer her status just to put some guy off the scent.
Jul 20, 2010 4:19 PM CST Shocked!!
PASSION8MAN
PASSION8MANPASSION8MANLIMERICK, Limerick Ireland90 Threads 3 Polls 2,056 Posts
starattax: yes men move very fast. not all mind but my ex had hooked up within 4 days i mean jeez no time to grieve there haha.


Same with an ex girlfriend of mine like
couple of days after , saw her in the
club loved up with another guy crying
Jul 20, 2010 4:24 PM CST Shocked!!
flick1980
flick1980flick1980Offaly, Ireland27 Threads 1 Polls 1,684 Posts
PASSION8MAN: Same with an ex girlfriend of mine like
couple of days after , saw her in the
club loved up with another guy
hug hug teddybear
Jul 20, 2010 4:25 PM CST Shocked!!
shin_1411
shin_1411shin_1411Kildare, Ireland4 Threads 17 Posts
flick1980: are you sure he is definately engaged?? just wondering as i have a few friends on facebook that keep changing their relationship just for a laugh and they are completely single. one has it that they are married at the moment and they definately arent married.


thumbs up
Im pretty sure he is , I dont think he would be the type of person to do that, its the same with a few of my friends, they have "married" to another girl or something like that..

Its not bothering me , Im happy for him just thought it was a bit sudden..

Some people have no considerations for other people at all.. ie them exs who leave it a couple of days.. I just wouldnt be able to do that!
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