The most important thing in your life RIGHT NOW is your son ,he is a totally innocent victim in this, being deserted by his dad, but now it seems with no contact at all with him, children of this age can often blame themselves, their behaviour for his disappearance, and propably left feeling very insecure about whether his father loved him.So he needs all your reassurance, that he is loved by you, but whatever you feel,anger ,grief,please dont bad mouth your ex to your son, until you know his reasons for leaving, he may well have been ill,depressed, or at least i am hoping so for your sons sake so that an amicable door can be left open for son/father contact. In the meantime give yourself time to grieve your own loss, only time will heal this pain, but it will happen believe me. Believe in yourself & learn to love yourself again, be gentle with yourself, & just take one day at a time, but make a list of the things you would like to achieve in the coming New Year, but each day think to yourself, My Life Starts Today, and try your level best, to smile at others, be positive, & confident, you will surprised at how much others will return it to you. May your God go with you LOVE N LIGHT
Thank you all , yes I know life is a journey, an adventure, but is it because we are humans & have emotions that we feel, or just simply beacause we can, that we keep on hurting others, & they in turn hurt us.Do we enjoy it?
Why OH Why, are we so often guilty of ignoring the people who adore us? adoring the people who ignore us? hurting the people who love us & loving the people who hurt us? OOOOOh Life is so confusing??
ah so honest, & yes I would wish them the very best of luck, while still thinking how many years of hell, misery depression, drink will the poor sod go through, if he's lucky enough to survive to tell the tale?
Ok i am trying to learn photoshop CS , but dont know if its my age or what , but just aint getting it can anyone help get me around the basics please, like selective colouring, & dealing with layers>////
Any body out there who is or wanna be photographer, artist, designer,, clothes maker, mask maker , model , sock puppet maker , anyone creative who would like to talk, share experiences, knowledge, collaborate,????????? give to the world & it gives back 10 fold
Watching my little girl laugh making my littlgirl laugh making others laugh, photographing a beautiful home birth, a beautiful peaceful /sunrise/sunset. dancing naked in the rain. singing to my favourite songs.although that doesn,t please everyone. being by the sea. making love. & being/feeling alive.
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RE: how do you cure a broken heart?
The most important thing in your life RIGHT NOW is your son ,he is a totally innocent victim in this, being deserted by his dad, but now it seems with no contact at all with him, children of this age can often blame themselves, their behaviour for his disappearance, and propably left feeling very insecure about whether his father loved him.So he needs all your reassurance, that he is loved by you, but whatever you feel,anger ,grief,please dont bad mouth your ex to your son, until you know his reasons for leaving, he may well have been ill,depressed, or at least i am hoping so for your sons sake so that an amicable door can be left open for son/father contact.In the meantime give yourself time to grieve your own loss, only time will heal this pain, but it will happen believe me. Believe in yourself & learn to love yourself again, be gentle with yourself, & just take one day at a time, but make a list of the things you would like to achieve in the coming New Year, but each day think to yourself, My Life Starts Today, and try your level best, to smile at others, be positive, & confident, you will surprised at how much others will return it to you.
May your God go with you
LOVE N LIGHT