Aine66 Forum Posts (9)

RE: Pull up a chair and lets chat

Morning Ladies,

My day is great so far. I am supposed to be working but haven't done much so far. Been surfin the net and chatting with a friend.

<<< pours another cup of coffee >>

Does anyone read profiles without pictures?

Mimi, I think that's the bottom line. No one wants to admit the importance of physyical attraction. We all want to be a bigger person and say "it doesn't matter to me", when in fact it does.

I know there are stories of people are great friends before any type of relationship develops, but I am sure the majority of the time people meet because of a physical first impression.

I'm not saying one is better than the other. I am just willing to admit, that I jump right over the pictureless profiles. If I see a pic of someone I find attractive, I will read the profile that goes with it.

Spark, chemistry, call it what you will, but face to face, whatever it is that draws two people together begins with a physcial attraction.

The difference with the Internet is that we have to forego that initial judgement because even with pictures, we don't know if they are the real thing.

Has anyone been deceived in that way?

Kat

Does anyone read profiles without pictures?

LOL that's fresh enough Marina. You know what I mean.

PS my daughter took mine also.

Does anyone read profiles without pictures?

That was not directed at anyone... just an observation from experience.

Does anyone read profiles without pictures?

While we're on the topic.

Let's post a CURRENT pic please. Not one from 5 years ago.

Does anyone read profiles without pictures?

Thanks ladies,

I totally agree with the physical connection side. If it's not there for me then I don't want to go any further. The thing is, no matter what you look like, there is someone for everyone. So why not post the pic, and let the flowers come in!

I wish some men would reply.

There are alot of male profiles without pics. I havent' browsed the female profiles to see if there are as many without pics.

This online dating thing allows us to be very specific is out criteria for the "perfect match", why wouldn't looks be included in that?

I find this so intersting.

Thanks again for posting.
Kat

Does anyone read profiles without pictures?

Thanks Chance,

I appreciate your opinion, and like yourself, of course I want someone to like me for who I am, and not what I look like.

I was just curious if others were like me and tended to focus on the profiles with pictures and pass over the ones without.

I could be missing out on some amazing individuals.

Kat

Does anyone read profiles without pictures?

Why are there so many people on here without pictures posted? I decided this morning that I would give these people the benefit of the doubt and read a few profiles. Some of them sound nice and all, but my interest level just bottoms out. Is it me? Am I shallow?

Thoughts please.
Kat

RE: What does it feel like to you?!

Brycen, I can only add one thing to that.

I've only experience this once, but I know I loved him because when I was missing him, my heart literally ached. I had a tightness in my chest that wouldn't go away. Not unbearable, but a constant reminder that a piece was missing.