eria1212 Forum Posts (44)

RE: have you a sweettooth?

I can take it or leave it, but I love chewy candy, specially salt water taffy!

RE: Cupcakes For Breakfast, Countdown to Bedtime, Everything in Between!

some dinner, girl, you been gone over a week I think, what's up with that??

RE: What Makes You Happy?

my girlfriend mostly

RE: why so picky????

I wander why nobody answers

RE: Happy Birthday Opentuit

Happy Happy Happy!!!!

And have a great year!!!

RE: What are the most important lessons you’ve learned in life?

Observe and listen first.

RE: What Makes You Happy?

Right on!

RE: Do you believe in premarital cohabitation?

RE: Can The Way Some One Acts In The Forums Cause You To Put Them On Your UNDATEABLE LIST!

That might be the most useful thing about the forums. I do'nt really seem to meet anyone local from this but I really do learn alot because how people act on here is the same as real life in some ways and it's just much easier to observe here. From watching people intract here it makes me think more clearly about people's behavior the there facades in real life and how it takes time to see the real person. It has gave me more patience with getting to know knew people, made me more curious to see who they are and how they are over time, so for me that has been the most useful thing about CS.

RE: If you see your ex-lover is dating right in front of you, are you jealous ?

That's about where I am with it to. Life go's on.

RE: How does men see our body?

"Women say they feel more comfortable undressing in front of men than they do undressing in front of other women. They say that women are too judgmental, where, of course, men are just grateful."
-- Robert De Niro

RE: Is it Ethical for Men to judge Women?

Maybe unenthical to judge her more harshly than you judge yourself and I think it's important we realize that we usually don't know all the circumstances related to other people's choices in life so give other's the benefit of the doubt when you can.

RE: Cupcakes For Breakfast, Countdown to Bedtime, Everything in Between!

Thursdays big lunch date just got upped to a Satruday night!
Seriously though nice girl smart and hot. I know I know so why is she going out with me a second time?

Secrets of a Happy Marriage

You can lease a car or rent a house instead of buying one. That way you don't have to take such good care of it because you know your not really keeping it longterm = You can have a relationship with a woman or even live with her but refuse to marry her because in your heart you know your not really keeping her longterm.

Even if that not your thinking she will probably feel it that way. It's not the ring or paper or the party. It's just that when you BUY-IN all the way and officially announce you want to be with nobody but her forever, a woman FEELS that difference.

Secrets of a Happy Marriage

But love alone is not enough.

Secrets of a Happy Marriage

Yeah a friend of mine said
that soon there will be more divorces than marriages!

Secrets of a Happy Marriage

Totally! Great list!

Secrets of a Happy Marriage

I have a big date for lunch so I will come back and check on progress later on, you are awesome!!!

I don't think a happy marriage is such a mystery any more than just being happy is a mystery. BUT marriage definitely takes WORK and sadly I think that surprises a lot of people.

Secrets of a Happy Marriage

I have a big date for lunch so I will come back and check on progress later on, you are awesome!!!

I don't think a happy marriage is such a mystery and more than just being happy is a mystery. BUT marriage definitely takes WORK and sadly I think that surprises a lot of people.

Secrets of a Happy Marriage

Maturity is a major factor, and that goes to mistaking lust for love and hurrying into things.

Secrets of a Happy Marriage

I think sometimes people feel like "getting married" is the big goal like theyve acheived something by finding a partner and having a big party. I mean they have I guess but the bigger acheivement is keeping it going.

Reminds me of people who work so hard to lose weight

And then realize that they have no clue how MAINTAIN it.

So its like a success & failure loop.

Maybe a MAINTENANCE ATTITUDE is what we need to add in there for a happy marriage?

Secrets of a Happy Marriage

So maturity and commitment issues then?

Secrets of a Happy Marriage

Why? Are we just lazy? Or do we not realize this is the way to ruin something that was once really great? Isnt is like how you have to maintain anything that you care about, like your car or hour house or your health???

RE: say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie

there you go I made a new thread just for Secret to a Happy Marriage (and Why get married at all?)

Secrets of a Happy Marriage

In another thread we were talking about the "secret" of a happy marriage, and I said that I thought It starts with attraction, but that altimately you also need:
maturity
compatability
commitment
communication


And Laura25 asked this qustion that maybe some of you CSers can offer (serious) ideas on "What happens to all (or some of) these magic substances after people get married?"


And somebody else asked more or less Why get married at all?

RE: say SOMETHING, anything... la troisieme partie

starts with attraction, of course, but altimately I think you need 4 more things:

maturity, compatability, commitment, and communication

RE: name that tune

It's that skinhead band Skrewdriver sings Antisocial but I don't want to get married.

RE: A long distance relationship vs. a local one? Whats your oppinion?

What if he is American but now living in another country?

What if he is from another country but living near you right now?

I mean why does it matter to you where he is FROM, or does it?

RE: Would you want to date someone much smarter than you?

“No one is more arrogant toward women,
more aggressive or scornful,
than the man who is anxious about his virility”

~Simone de Beauvoir

RE: Would you want to date someone much smarter than you?

“No one is more arrogant toward women,
more aggressive or scornful,
than the man who is anxious about his virility”

~Simone de Beauvoir