obviously i cant say exactly who it is but the wife thru him out and after 3 weeks took him back supposedly saying after getting advice and thinking long and hard about it
we all make mistakes in life glatol.. now if that affair was ongoing for the past 5 years then my outlook changes but the fact it happened 5 years ago(which is a very long time) proves differently to me
this lad was missing end upon time using work as his excuse 4 the affair since then hes been around always so dont think anything happened since that affair.. he realised he made a massive mistake
im a firm believer of what happensd in the past stays there. i think what a person did 5 years ago shouldnt be held against them now as its proven hes truelly sorry and also i believe people can change
or a trusting person that something that was a mistake 5 years ago wouldnt happen again.. youd be none the wiser and still enjoying a healthy relationship only 4 that phonecall..
i wouldnt call it guilt id call it realisation.. realising what they really want and what really matters.. if i was asked 4 an opinion on a matter like this id suggest giving them a second chance
no second chance then? even tho it was only the once and 5 years ago and the reason he stopped is because he loved you AND the only reason you would of found out about it is because the other person decided to cause trouble and phone you to tell it
if one day a person rang you and said 5 years ago i had an affair with your bf/gf and it lasted a year and you confronted your partner over this and they admitted that it was true but they then said the reason i ended it was because i was foolish and realised your the one i love, how would you react to this??
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on second taughts i better keep quiet i dont want a second ban looming