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unouwantme2pussyville, Tipperary Ireland144 Threads 4,470 Postsif one day a person rang you and said 5 years ago i had an affair with your bf/gf and it lasted a year and you confronted your partner over this and they admitted that it was true but they then said the reason i ended it was because i was foolish and realised your the one i love, how would you react to this??
unouwantme2: if one day a person rang you and said 5 years ago i had an affair with your bf/gf and it lasted a year and you confronted your partner over this and they admitted that it was true but they then said the reason i ended it was because i was foolish and realised your the one i love, how would you react to this??
Exactly how I did react when it actually happened... I got out.
unouwantme2: if one day a person rang you and said 5 years ago i had an affair with your bf/gf and it lasted a year and you confronted your partner over this and they admitted that it was true but they then said the reason i ended it was because i was foolish and realised your the one i love, how would you react to this??
where do you find these questions? do you watch dr phil nd co too?? 
baldydude: where do you find these questions? do you watch dr phil nd co too??
this was discussed by a relative of man over a fella he nos70Libra: Exactly how I did react when it actually happened... I got out.
no second chance then? even tho it was only the once and 5 years ago and the reason he stopped is because he loved you AND the only reason you would of found out about it is because the other person decided to cause trouble and phone you to tell itunouwantme2: if one day a person rang you and said 5 years ago i had an affair with your bf/gf and it lasted a year and you confronted your partner over this and they admitted that it was true but they then said the reason i ended it was because i was foolish and realised your the one i love, how would you react to this??
Would be so long from me.
Glatlol: Would be so long from me.
what lolunouwantme2: what lol
"So long" as in goodbye
unouwantme2: no second chance then? even tho it was only the once and 5 years ago and the reason he stopped is because he loved you AND the only reason you would of found out about it is because the other person decided to cause trouble and phone you to tell it
Nope. No seconds. A whole year screwing another and then the guilt kicks in?
That's not love. That's not respect. That's apathy.
Glatlol: "So long" as in goodbye
reaaly??unouwantme2: reaaly??
Yes really
Glatlol: Yes really
would the fact that he ended it witout you even noing it prove to ya that he loves you?it happened yearas ago and has been oh so good sinceunouwantme2: would the fact that he ended it witout you even noing it prove to ya that he loves you?it happened yearas ago and has been oh so good since
If it went on for a year he didnt love anyone but himself
unouwantme2: personally id give them a second go.. it was 5 years ago and not like it was going on all the time over them 5 years.. id be watchin their every move 4 a period but ye i wouldnt throw them out
thats ur chioce but ur head would be melted in the long term??
what else would u not be aware of?
u must be very strong minded or desperate man lol
Glatlol: If it went on for a year he didnt love anyone but himself
plus if she didnt ring you and confess youd be none the wiser and still love him 4 what he is now not what he was 5 years ago70Libra: Nope. No seconds. A whole year screwing another and then the guilt kicks in?
That's not love. That's not respect. That's apathy.
i wouldnt call it guilt id call it realisation.. realising what they really want and what really matters.. if i was asked 4 an opinion on a matter like this id suggest giving them a second chanceThat's not love. That's not respect. That's apathy.
unouwantme2: plus if she didnt ring you and confess youd be none the wiser and still love him 4 what he is now not what he was 5 years ago
But to stick to your OP the person would know. And if he was capable of having an affair for a year he wouldnt be the person you thought he was.
dublinmale13: thats ur chioce but ur head would be melted in the long term??
what else would u not be aware of?
u must be very strong minded or desperate man lol
or a trusting person that something that was a mistake 5 years ago wouldnt happen again.. youd be none the wiser and still enjoying a healthy relationship only 4 that phonecall..what else would u not be aware of?
u must be very strong minded or desperate man lol
Glatlol: But to stick to your OP the person would know. And if he was capable of having an affair for a year he wouldnt be the person you thought he was.
im a firm believer of what happensd in the past stays there. i think what a person did 5 years ago shouldnt be held against them now as its proven hes truelly sorry and also i believe people can change70Libra: Nope. No seconds. A whole year screwing another and then the guilt kicks in?
That's not love. That's not respect. That's apathy.
I'm with you on that Libra That's not love. That's not respect. That's apathy.
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