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unouwantme2: im a firm believer of what happensd in the past stays there. i think what a person did 5 years ago shouldnt be held against them now as its proven hes truelly sorry and also i believe people can change
this seems like a personal issue for u mate!!! ur sticking to ur guns on this one
u should give jeremy a ring and book urself in for some 1 on 1 therapy with the nation
billyj1: But then there could also be someone else calling you later about what happened 4 years ago and someone else 3 years ago etc..
I'm afraid the trust would be gone
this lad was missing end upon time using work as his excuse 4 the affair since then hes been around always so dont think anything happened since that affair.. he realised he made a massive mistakeI'm afraid the trust would be gone
unouwantme2: ye im serious.. the fact the person ended the affair proves how sry he is for the hurt caused and that he loved his wife.. he could of continued it as she was none the wiser to me its clear hes extremly sorry for the mistake he made
Ended it after a year? No that wasnt a mistake that was an intentional act of deception.
dublinmale13: this seems like a personal issue for u mate!!! ur sticking to ur guns on this one
u should give jeremy a ring and book urself in for some 1 on 1 therapy with the nation
its to do with a relatives m8 so its fairly close but id say the same to anyoneu should give jeremy a ring and book urself in for some 1 on 1 therapy with the nation
unouwantme2: ye im serious.. the fact the person ended the affair proves how sry he is for the hurt caused and that he loved his wife.. he could of continued it as she was none the wiser to me its clear hes extremly sorry for the mistake he made
genuine relationship and people who have respect for each other dont have affairs. thats the reality mate . if its otherwise then its not gonna work no matter how much u grovel and say sorry or admit it was a mistake
1 nite stand maybe but a year long affair ??
Glatlol: Ended it after a year? No that wasnt a mistake that was an intentional act of deception.
we all make mistakes in life glatol.. now if that affair was ongoing for the past 5 years then my outlook changes but the fact it happened 5 years ago(which is a very long time) proves differently to meunouwantme2: plus if she didnt ring you and confess youd be none the wiser and still love him 4 what he is now not what he was 5 years ago
Cant put the lid back on the box, its out know so the partner does now.
unouwantme2: we all make mistakes in life glatol.. now if that affair was ongoing for the past 5 years then my outlook changes but the fact it happened 5 years ago(which is a very long time) proves differently to me
I dont agree that an affair that went on for a year was just a mistake. A mistake is doing something once and realising it was wrong.
dublinmale13: 1 nite stand maybe but a year long affair ??
A one night stand, with one person, just once... probably forgiveable.
Serial cheating... not
unouwantme2: its to do with a relatives m8 so its fairly close but id say the same to anyone
u obviously believe in this person but no way wud he have a second chance with me ...id always be waiting on the next fone call nahhh not worth wasting time on this guy
dublinmale13: genuine relationship and people who have respect for each other dont have affairs. thats the reality mate . if its otherwise then its not gonna work no matter how much u grovel and say sorry or admit it was a mistake
1 nite stand maybe but a year long affair ??
obviously i cant say exactly who it is but the wife thru him out and after 3 weeks took him back supposedly saying after getting advice and thinking long and hard about it1 nite stand maybe but a year long affair ??
Glatlol: I dont agree that an affair that went on for a year was just a mistake. A mistake is doing something once and realising it was wrong.
also think of it this way, how many times did they see one another in the space of that year?? dont ask me gla cause i dont nounouwantme2: obviously i cant say exactly who it is but the wife thru him out and after 3 weeks took him back supposedly saying after getting advice and thinking long and hard about it
yes thinking long and hard about plotting her revenge lol and takin him to the cleaners, woman can be very clever just like us men lol
unouwantme2: also think of it this way, how many times did they see one another in the space of that year?? dont ask me gla cause i dont no
Well I think we can be pretty sure it was more than once.
chattychick09: u obviously believe in this person but no way wud he have a second chance with me ...id always be waiting on the next fone call nahhh not worth wasting time on this guy
so would you hold 1 MISTAKE over someone 4 the rest of their lives??another unoiannoyou question where he dont want your answer or opinion except his own 
dublinmale13: yes thinking long and hard about plotting her revenge lol and takin him to the cleaners, woman can be very clever just like us men lol
i no this women fairly well and lets say id be shocked if she did it lolGlatlol: Well I think we can be pretty sure it was more than once.
maybe twice lol
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But then there could also be someone else calling you later about what happened 4 years ago and someone else 3 years ago etc..
I'm afraid the trust would be gone