did u read my profile? eh? if not, i'm basically saying how do we know we're in love if you laugh all the time, not want to be without him, can't stop thinking about him, etc.
that's all fine and dandy the way you two put it, but i don't know how to ask what i'm asking.... maybe, how do you know if you're in love with someone?
when we're babies, our parents tell us, "say 'I love you'" but when we're that age, we don't really know what love is, right? so how do we know how to identify what real love is?
few ? u mean alcohol? ahem, nineteen year old girl abides by the law (for the most part, lol) and besides, i wouldn't want to get drunk with someone unless i knew 100% that they wouldn't try to do anything.
it was actually kinda funny, how he said he wanted to kiss me, but i told him i wanted to wait, and he emailed me back saying that kissing on a first date is kind of a stupid thing to do. but what i'm really trying to ask, i think is; what kind of moment would be a good one? should it be when i first see him next, or, eh, this hurts, thinking too much, ouuuuwwwch!lol. also, to clear up any confusion, i technically didn't meet him online. my friend met him online, went out with him once, and she said that she wanted to play matchmaker, and we all three agreed. (we just so happened to be signed up for the same site, lol). so before i ramble on and on, i'm going to stop talking and see what people say, lol. l8rz!
i met this guy from a diff site, and i really like him, but i told him i didn't want to kiss him on the first date (which he was cool with) but now i feel like i'm ready to kiss him, but i don't know how to tell him i want to kiss him. does anyone have any ideas? And how do we know it's real love, not lust or infatuation? -Andrea
oops, my bad, wrong copy and paste... here's the real one:
"Where's the party?" ESFPs love people, excitement, telling stories and having fun. The spontaneous, impulsive nature of this type is almost always entertaining. And ESFPs love to entertain -- on stage, at work, and/or at home. Social gatherings are an energy boost to these "people" people.
SPs sometimes think and talk in more of a spider-web approach. Several of my ESFP friends jump from thought to thought in mid-sentence, touching here or there in a manner that's almost incoherent to the listener, but will eventually cover the waterfront by skipping on impulse from one piece of information to another. It's really quite fascinating.
New! ESFPs are attracted to new ideas, new fashions, new gadgets, new ______. Perhaps it's the newness of life that attracts ESFPs to elementary education, especially to preschool and kindergarten.
ESFPs love to talk to people about people. Some of the most colorful storytellers are ESFPs. Their down-to-earth, often homespun wit reflects a mischievous benevolence.
Almost every ESFP loves to talk. Some can be identified by the twenty minute conversation required to ask or answer a simple factual question.
Your Type is ESFP Extroverted 22% Sensing 25% Feeling 50% Perceiving 11%
Qualitative analysis of your type formula
You are: Extraverted Sensing The dominant function of ESFPs is concerned with the reality that is perceived through the senses. This type's prime directive is to examine the tangible through taste, touch, sight, feeling and hearing. ESFPs' need for new experiences surely results from this function. Feeling gives focus to the collected information, producing the amiable nature of this type. As perceivers, ESFPs do not linger on moral concerns unless it is in service of a Greater Good and/or a unifying cause.
Introverted Feeling Feeling, which tends to decision-making in the interest of individual beings, is auxiliary to sensing. As with all introverted functions, feeling for ESFPs has a surreal, cryptic, quintessential nature. It is more often implied than verbally expressed, more apparent in countenance and deed rather than word or creed. Feeling takes care that playful pokes and pranks do no harm to the victim.
Extraverted Thinking This tertiary function is at the ready to give definitive answers when the world requires them. It provides a measure of balance to Introverted Feeling, allowing the ESFP some level of boundary and protection from those who would take advantage. When overused or overestimated, however, Thinking becomes a liability. ESFPs do well to seek out confirmation of the soundness of tough-minded decisions.
Introverted Intuition This function is least visible. As is the nature of the inferior (fourth) function, ESFP intuition lacks a sense of balance. This type seems most successful in deducing patterns and seeing connections only after a thorough examination of the facts (which process appears quite unorganized and haphazard to non-SPs). Although some ESFPs may develop such abilities, the mastery of logic, analysis and abstraction is usually difficult and wearying, and not very much fun.
really? i didn't know that... wait, what's pi squared??? (the pathetic thing was that i memorized some numbers on pi, and i still would get an f if i was given a math test).
we're programed to say "i love you" are we not?
did u read my profile? eh? if not, i'm basically saying how do we know we're in love if you laugh all the time, not want to be without him, can't stop thinking about him, etc.