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Sep 20, 2006 11:36 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
enya1234567890
enya1234567890enya1234567890Redwood City, California USA5 Threads 115 Posts
i met this guy from a diff site, and i really like him, but i told him i didn't want to kiss him on the first date (which he was cool with) but now i feel like i'm ready to kiss him, but i don't know how to tell him i want to kiss him. does anyone have any ideas?
confused And how do we know it's real love, not lust or infatuation?confused
-Andrea
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Sep 20, 2006 11:37 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
TheProfessor
TheProfessorTheProfessorPandoras Box, USA91 Threads 4,746 Posts
If it's a first date, it's lust-based. That being said, if you want to kiss him.. grab him, pin him to the wall and kiss him.
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Sep 20, 2006 11:38 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
ummmm....lean over and kiss him...not a difficult task!


real love? does your heart go pitterpat? can you picture yourself and him old and gray in rocking chairs surrounded by grandbabies?
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Sep 20, 2006 11:38 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
kidaling
kidalingkidalingcentral alberta, Alberta Canada2 Threads 179 Posts
he..he..he..applause
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Sep 20, 2006 11:51 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
boycountry2630
boycountry2630boycountry2630nashville, Tennessee USA4 Threads 27 Posts
Have to agree with the prof if its the first date its lust. but theres nothing wrong with a kiss you dont have to be inlove to kiss someone so lean in close and lay it on him
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Sep 20, 2006 11:53 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
PanthersSpirit
PanthersSpiritPanthersSpiritmiddlesex county, Massachusetts USA24 Threads 643 Posts
Hmmm, approach him gently and give him a tender kiss...but the next time kiss him like he needed CPR!....I think you will figure out your emotions by then....laugh
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Sep 20, 2006 11:59 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
zdeadmanwalking
zdeadmanwalkingzdeadmanwalkingbowling green, Kentucky USA235 Threads 3,011 Posts
dunno maybe take your time,so you can get to know each other
sit down and talk to each other honestly and open
find at where both of you want to go
for sometimes one wants to go one way while the other wants to go another way


you have nothing to lose by taking it slow,but you have everything to lose when you rush somethings.do not rush into something that you later might regret.


always remember this if they are the right one,they will be willing to wait on you.they will not rush you into something you are not ready for.but they will be willing to take the time to know the person you are on the inside
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Sep 21, 2006 12:34 AM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
nwnstar
nwnstarnwnstarConway, USA38 Threads 5,464 Posts
and i gotta disagree a bit, cause that's my nature.

if you've talked forever online and on the phone...then it might not just be lust...although i hope that's there, too. it just might be more.
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Sep 21, 2006 8:24 AM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
cassidyrae
cassidyraecassidyraemuncie, Indiana USA1 Threads 48 Posts
if the kiss is meant to happen-the right moment will come. I think its a way you look at a guy with the eyes that lets him know its okay. As far as real love vs infatuation or lust-that will take a little more time. Every relationship feels good in the beginning, the first several dates but eventually you will see some flaws and you will either wonder why you thought love or it will just become more intense.love
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Sep 21, 2006 8:37 AM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
sportslovingguy
sportslovingguysportslovingguyrathmines, Dublin Ireland6 Posts
hi andrea,you never know when its real love till much later,initially there will be an attraction,play it cool best advice be honest tell him you want to kiss him and i'm sure he'll appreciate your honesty.wink
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Sep 21, 2006 5:56 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
enya1234567890
enya1234567890enya1234567890Redwood City, California USA5 Threads 115 Posts
it was actually kinda funny, how he said he wanted to kiss me, but i told him i wanted to wait, and he emailed me back saying that kissing on a first date is kind of a stupid thing to do. but what i'm really trying to ask, i think is; what kind of moment would be a good one? should it be when i first see him next, or, eh, this hurts, confused banana thinking too much, ouuuuwwwch!lol. also, to clear up any confusion, i technically didn't meet him online. my friend met him online, went out with him once, and she said that she wanted to play matchmaker, and we all three agreed. (we just so happened to be signed up for the same site, lol).
so before i ramble on and on, i'm going to stop talking and see what people say, lol. l8rz!peace
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Sep 21, 2006 6:00 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
euro_doll
euro_dolleuro_dollSydney, New South Wales Australia11 Threads 428 Posts
ummm its just a kiss- its not like you are moving in with him and sleeping with him aftert he first date!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

just get it over with for gods sake

ps- make sure you have eaten a mint- no garlic breath!!
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Sep 21, 2006 6:06 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
enya1234567890
enya1234567890enya1234567890Redwood City, California USA5 Threads 115 Posts
to you all, a kiss might be meaningless, but to me, i disagreefrustrated
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Sep 21, 2006 6:10 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
euro_doll
euro_dolleuro_dollSydney, New South Wales Australia11 Threads 428 Posts
no need to frustrated , try a few drinking and it'll all be good.

ps- dont forget the mint- or chewing gum- or mouthwash dancing
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Sep 21, 2006 6:30 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
enya1234567890
enya1234567890enya1234567890Redwood City, California USA5 Threads 115 Posts
few drinking? u mean alcohol? ahem, nineteen year old girl abides by the law (for the most part, lolblushing) and besides, i wouldn't want to get drunk with someone unless i knew 100% that they wouldn't try to do anything.
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Sep 21, 2006 6:56 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
when its time to kiss, you both will know. it will just happen. untill than, wait patiantly.
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Sep 21, 2006 6:57 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
euro_doll
euro_dolleuro_dollSydney, New South Wales Australia11 Threads 428 Posts
ah yes- america - a land where kids carry guns but you cant drink until you are 21 doh
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Sep 22, 2006 11:31 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
enya1234567890
enya1234567890enya1234567890Redwood City, California USA5 Threads 115 Posts
hehe, the time was todaygrinyay blushing and melikes him so much!!
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Sep 22, 2006 11:32 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
handshake congrats and goodluck to the both of ya
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Sep 22, 2006 11:34 PM CST :help: how do i let someone know i care?:help:
enya1234567890
enya1234567890enya1234567890Redwood City, California USA5 Threads 115 Posts
oh, btw, thx for the chewing gum advicerolling on the floor laughing kiss
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