If I thought it would be worth while and I considered myself in love with the person and we had a chance-I would totally move and be with that person. You never know if it could be the last time you have moments with that person. ie; the person that started the thread-she had someone for 6 months that she woulnt change a lifetime with.
guess it depends on the maturity of both people. If it were an 18 yr old girl very innocent and he being 36, might do her more harm than good in the longrun, but if it were an 18 year old that is extremely mature for her age I don't see why it would matter. As long as nobody is getting hurt by the situation and they were happy, who cares what their age is? Have to add though a woman 36 with an 18 yr old boy-people frown on. Why is it okay for the man to date younger women but women not date younger men?
JONNY DEPP IS MY THING- he has been the best thing since chips and salsa!! some of the people you all were talking about i think my mom had a crush on!
I would like to believe true love exists and that nobody 'settles' -I want true love! but than again how do you know it's true love? anybody out there ever think they experiened 'true love'?? I would like to hear those answers..
engaged in 5 days was a sign-that's not enough time for 2 people to get to know each other. You think you might know him but your probably better off without him. His family liked you so much-that might have scared him to begin with. What kind of job does he have that is so stressful? Your better off staying away because looks like he isnt ready to settle down. sorry! I feel for you. it will get better.
BTW-has it occured to you that even if he were to choose you, there might always be that thought in the back of your head wondering if he ever thinks he made the wrong choice after he has chosen? just a thought-
its possible to be in love with two people but I would give him an ultimatum-give him a few days to think about who he would rather be with and go from there. Right now he has his cake and is eating it too! tell him he can only have a PIECE of cake-thats all the desert he gets!!
I totally agree with you! We're all human and sometimes when a goodlooking guy/girl walks by, you want to look but if your with your mate you should give him/her the respect not to eye the man/woman down and openly let your thoughts out. That is completely disrespectful to the relationship.
your the second couple i have reas about-i'm estatic for you both i just wish i could find that special person like you have done-i wish you both the best of luck!
depends on the chemistry-after that it all has to do with each others morals, stance towards life-you can fall in love at first site but to keep it going you have to have similarites in personality, wants, needs, etc.
how about what not to have? garlic! if you want anybody to kiss at the end of the nite (or between bites) you need to stay away from the garlic but I'm a cheeseburger kinda girl or chicken-I'm not picky as long as I am with the person whose making my heart pitter patter
what about not falling into the toilet in the middle of the nite-cause HE left the seat up again! or walking barefoot into the bathroom and stepping into a small puddle cause his aim went the wrong way
This isn't for all ladies but I think most of us prefer to have a guy make the first move. but it does depend on the situation, sometimes you just know when its right.
cant deal with hairy legs on myself just because I don't want to - and really cant deal with men with hair all over their back-its like being with a gorilla!
But its not his fault his ex is psycho-just ignore her and see how things go with the guy-makes sense to me-course she might just be one of those jealous ex's that didnt want the guy and now that he has someone new she is pissed-the old saying of you don't want it but you don't want someone else to have it either!! I'd stick around and check out the show-you never know where it will take you
RE: Cloud Nine!
Thats really sweet-and like you said-he was right under your nose the entire time!