Why this site is????

I thought this site is being made for find their mates. But I don't find this useful. I don't know why????
I joined this site to find a lady who come on chat with me & I'll find my love who is intending for or seeking for,...... But till today I didn't find any one. I sent e-mail to many of user, but didn't get any reply,...... So, I concluded that this site has no meaning for me, just wasting my time,......
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