Perhaps, just perhaps you come across as too much of an open book. Are u a show off, that puts women off big time, well me anyway. Do you just talk about yourself when you are with a girl, do you take an avid interest (girls do like alot of attention) I dont mean interrogating them lol. Conversation is a two way thing. You say your open and friendly which is good, but perhaps tone it down a bit and dont be too much of an open book. Be a little mysterious and hold back a little. Hope this helps. Apologies if I am wrong.

Thank you for your reply! I find myself shy and not knowing what to say most of the time, I make a point of never showing off and don't go into much detail on things unless its something she would be interested in. I convey interest in what she has to say. You say perhaps i'm an open book, how do I change this please?

No date for me tonight, just me and the pc :( you are lucky faeriedusted, i live in small community, think i should sell up and move somewhere busy.

Well, I think you are smart and cute! Why online dating?

No! Just be yourself.. :)

thank you alejandra for your nice words,you hve nice day! guess have to start somewhere. am sad to loose someone i really admired :-(

ok, advice taken! thank you.

Well, sometimes l wonder what men really want!:-) Seems there are no serious people here!

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the seeker shall find from the keepers lot :) god walks in my shadow, defiance that do me wrong shall pay the price from this day forward. amen

Oh you! I'm blushing! Eeee, thank you! Washington is beautiful, especially in the fall. It suits me perfectly as we get quite a bit of rain. I love the rain and colder weather. We are sadly lacking in Irish men though.

That made me laugh harder than it should have, probably.

Here to please! :D

Wouldn't have you any other way!

my real name is lord Arthur seymour williams the 8th, son of byron, but i keeping low profile shhhhhhhhh

i can see why most of these people are single any advice welcome?

You don't find any attractive?

How's that then?

do you really have to ask that dude!

It may unnerve them or said person may think it rude if they don 't know your vision isn't good. I know someone who doesn't care if he is stared at. You may want to clarify just in case? Or wait and see how the person reacts. I'm sorry to hear you think you ruined it but perhaps redemption is possible. If not, I bet you will have no problem finding someone else because as I said you are a really attractive man. Plus, you seem sweet. Just be upfront. :)

the base of nearly all our languages, latin, but it messed up man, i should delete that soon, thanks for reminding me! you getting much luck? loads of people in Dublin. need a review?

my profile must be quite good, not getting many pointers! hehe :-)

Since I'm miles away, you're safe. haha

Anyway, when we base in your profile, it seems to be good. Narratives are ok. But with your question about being dumped after the 4th date, well that's another story.. A lot of possible reasons. Maybe they find you boring? Maybe you both don't move to the same speed. Or, they just don't find what they are looking for in you. Who knows? Women are a complicated lot, men say..

You smoke which is a turn-off,to most. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you. Mind your health better. Don't try so hard to want to connect with a lady, relax, don't dwell on talking about your past in any way especially relationships and depressing topics.
Find general topics of interest to discuss and peak a lady's attention.
Good Luck!

you know what not everybody gets everybody...b yourself you ll find the right girl