I will rephrase that my dear so the information does not look so use less. As the above commenter seems to not understand . Many Middle eastern men leave their wives to Go on business in Indonesia... They make friends with pretty girls online Who live in Indonesia , especially young ladies Who have an interest in leaving their country to live in a better place.These men often promise a good job in their company etc, or even marriage. They then meet the lady in Indonesia , she is full of love and start eyed , she gives herself to him .after a week he leaves with a promise to continue to love and support her , and then it is all over. Unfortunately this happens very often . They prefer a nice good clean girl , rather than he working girls of Pattaya or other places in Thailand , and doing business in Indonesia, another Muslim country is so easy to explain to the wife. I dont want to scare you, i just want to help you , be aware . I lived and worked many years in the middle east and know many guys( and wives of guys) Who do this all the time. The girls are left feeling created and alone. Just be careful to whom you give your heart......un less someone Wants that sort of thing . Of course.
You look good , i would suggest how ever , if you are older than 55 tell the truth here. It will not come out well for you if you are not honest up front...... Looking great for your age does not mean you look younger.
Firstly , there are some grammatical errors which i thInk if you want to be believed to have been an ex journalist, should be corrected. The way you write has you sounding as a simple man trying to impress . I would eliminate those things from your profile. You are pumping yourself up too much. Maybe the women you seek will be impressed , is that what you hope for, will that give you more credence.
The first thing i thInk i noticed is you have teeth missing , or broken teeth. If i can see that , then other ladies might be able to as well. So i would say that might be a reason . Second in the photo you look a bit unhappy. Women like to see a happy face . Older women ,like to be with a man that takes care of himself, why dont you Go and get your teeth fixed first. Youll make a much better impression tha way.
Most young women would want a man Who likes kids or Wants kids. Expect your appeal to be limited because of that. Dont expect too many western women , an indian with tradizional family values might be dissapointed . Male , maldives , is not very populated ...good luck.
There is not much positive about your profile to like. Its all too focused on the negative. Because of that you will turn off the women you actually want.
Re read what you are saying and then re read what you originally wrote in your request here. You were asking for opinions of what we thought of your profile and why you were only getting hits from unsuitable guys. No use trying to tear me apart , and others who don't like what you write . You suspected it was a bit off yourself , you mentioned it, I'm agreeing with you and since you are a hard hitting no nonsense outspoken and up front kind of woman I think you should at least appreciate someone who is the same with you. I don't beat around the bush either , I notice you like the comments of those who think you are ok and all is well. It's the critics in life that will help you dear girl, not the losers who agree with you. You are definitely intelligent enough to write a decent profile for yourself , but are you intelligent enough to attract the man you really need for yourself by the way you write your profile ? That's the thing you need to focus on . Btw, this site is not so good for finding people , because it is free . A site like mee .....tic would possibly be much better for you. I have met a lot of men there and found my man there , here no one , I stay for the blogs . Don't get upset with what I say to you , I am an older woman with much experience and daughters older than you . You have your life ahead and lots of opportunity , I just get a bit sad when I see cases like yours . Your defending yourself when you should be focusing on changing .
No phone number, no skype , no mail? No nothing to do with contact . How will you know a guy . .? are you looking for a CS virtual date only that never leaves this site ?
You look decent and nice. I would say there is nothing wrong with your profile or pics. If i had a disability i would offer a brief outline of my disability on my profile. People might feel more comfortable approaching you know ing. What It is they are dealing with. I would be' totally up front about your disability, so those Who approach you or want to get to know you have already dealt with the issue and accept it.
Nothing wrong with what you say . But you do say a lot , maybe when you get private you say too much . Helps to remain a little mysterious , and don't try to get to know too much before u meet. Just meet with an open mind and soon . Often the ones you think might be hopeless are the good ones. Best spill the beans after meeting.
That whole business about split from girlfriend and no lovemaking for the length of time is a definite turn off on a profile ...too personal , girls don't want to know that. I'd rethink telling that info on a profile my dear. Replace I with something interesting about yourself.
You say what you want , you are quite clear , the pics are a bit hazy , but as we age haze helps sometimes . You look good for your age and present well . I think being as romantic as you are sounding here just might be a turn off for the more intellectual man , but then it is you who knows what you want and need for yourself , so good luck in your search .
I would never put it in the first lines that you just got out of a ten year relationship . That's wrong and women don't like that . It sounds baggage , heavy and soppy IMO. Because the new girl would be worried it might not be really over . So dump that opening line and don't mention it at all. It's a turn off. You sound like a nice guy prepared for a new woman . So it's all good . Gt some more pics on their of you with your dogs , you full body pic, yes clothed , on your bike maybe , and doing some other activity you mention you enjoy. Overall it's a good profile , just ditch the " I just got out of a ten year relationship " bit .
I would consider my age as compatible to yours . But any man of your age writing he'd take or want women from age 18 to 60 would definitely be a turn off to me. Firstly why would a woman my age want a guy who was also seeking an 18 year old ( he cannot be serious ) and secondly what 18 year old iN her right mind will want you ? So basically no one is interested , decent ladies looking for a real relationship won't be interested . I think Russian ladies desperate to get immigration might be attracted , they go for men interested in any age lady. Or Asian ladies looking for immigration . Depends what you want. I think you sound delusional here . Also too much mumbled information that does not make sense .
You will get what you attract dear man . Just think about it . You'll also get what you don't want . Only Air heads like that sort of pride in a man . Thanks for the hug . Hug you back .
RE: What am i doing wrong
For a start... The photo is bad , half in the shade...? Get a decent photo for goda sakè