You are precisely correct! Co-dependant is another topic and a good one. You make a lot of sense YouMeUs..thank you. I hope he has changed his ways at least, and I don't wish to spend my days worrying whether he gets it or not right? I had fears of him in the past, is another reason I moved on, as I figured he was "unstable" as you mentioned..but I got over all that crapola, guess he never did. Who does that anyways?..
Okay I see what your saying now. Yes I needed to let go long ago and did. Past is just that..the past..to me it means I have moved on to healthier times. Yes that's whats happening..they don't want to let go I'm thinking. Some pple just don't move on I guess, then it becomes another thing entirely.. Thanks for your response!
I agree, some people can stay friends, it depends on how the relationship went, but others are just invisible to me. No children involved, just my heart and soul. I made the decision to move on as it wasn't healthy, theyre the ones who cant accept it. Thanks for your input Berry
RE: Hanging on.
Bahaha.......Huh?...Elaborate please..