some of guys and girls are successful but still don't settle to their life or still single for a long time. Most of them has good carreer stable job, goodlooking, they have all they want they have the best of everything.
but one thing is missing in their life. A person that can give a true meaning of love to them.
This question comes to my mind.
How come they are successful but when it comes to a relationship is failed.
Are they perfectionist?
Are they choosy?
Are they looking for something they want to find but did not still known what they really want?
Are they afraid to share their life for someone?
Are they wait for a right time
Or most important to them are career?
Or they choose this.
If your one of this you know the answer...
Well even you are successful or not many has a problem of this
still single for a long time..
All we need is TIME...
For someone who has hurt by someone
-time can heal the wound.. Time will come you will feel that you are ready to be love but that time you will be very careful.
For someone who did mistake to a past
-time will give you to learn your lesson well. time will come you will be very thankful because of that mistake you become wised.
For someone who have been cheating.
-the truth hurt but it set you free time will come you will accept the fact that life goes on no matter what.
Past is past nothing will changed it you only hurt because of you own bitterness..
Each of us is deserved to be love and respect in return. So don't compare our life to others and we have no idea what their journey is
all about.. No one is in charged of your hapiness except you.
Im watching CNN... After an 8.9 magnitude in japan..33ft waves of tsunami how tragic it is..
Tsunami waves can go to hawai, philippines. Indonesia russia australia guam..
5:00-7:00pm it is believed that tsunami can go to the phillipines.
Praying and trust is the key.
Oh if ever this is your will pls lord help me to accept this..
I will trust u on this because you are the pilot of our life I let u to take us home...
My family want me to marry a rich man, I want to be rich but not in that way.
I want to be rich in my own way because I deserved it.
Because I am a hardworking not because of a man.
I want to have a boyfriend but not because of their money but because I love him and he can love me back.
I want to earn money but not in that way that I used people.
I wish my family understand me. But they don't.
Im not a golddigger, Im not the type of girl that will loved a person because of money. Im not a materialistic type.
Since my family know that I dont have a boyfriend they said I am pretty, educated, nice girl . They said I need to marry a rich men.
They said I need to used my mind. Yea I used my mind in a right thinking , I understand what they want I want to help them grrr..
I think they are selffish jellifish and starfish lol.
My point is I want to be successful or rich in life because I deserved it.
It is really hard. I'm a volunteer nurse and my family rush me to have a salary to go abroad, to go for marriage and everything so they can have a better life and me a bitter life haha lol.
all my life they always dictate me what should do in my life .it's not easy. I have my own life. Well I don't lose hope I believed in the right time everything will fall into a place .. Goodluck to me;) if i marry a rich man my family have a better life. At the same time I will have a misserable life.
Im not a swallow person to jump on that situation.
I know what I want.. Im too young I dont want a rush a things just to have it. Money can buy everything but not love and ur salvation
_Do you look for physical appearance??
1. Is it fair or tan color
2. Is it small or tall in height
3. Is it educated or not
_do you look it into a lifestyle???
1.is it smoker/drinker or do u prefer for non smker/drinker
2. Is it have a family history or not
3. Is it gambling/addict or what.
_do u look it into a personality???
_Above all
ACCEPTANCE is the key..
1. If you look it into a appearance maybe now you enjoying your partner as a youthful.. But time will come you will grow old together your fair smooth skin becomed wrinkled and dry, maybe now you attractived to her/his height but time will come your good posture become not good anymore
2. Maybe now you enjoying your both lifestyle drink smoker having a social life but time will come who knows someday you will have a disease like emphysema, liver of diseased and others
3. Maybe now you enjoying your partner to have a good attitude becaused you believed but as a years goes by due to the circumstances cannot be prevented such as unfaithful, lust, social lifestyle or maybe disease such as alzeimer dis. Parkinson and etc...
Above this all will you accept her/his??? Will you understand and care to him/her after all
you need to admit that beauty is passing look can be deceiving, personality can changed wealth is fading away, health can take you away So accept and understand your partner
remember when you decided to settle down you vow in church for richer and for poorer through sickness and health till death do us part ..
So before you go for marriage get a marriage counselling. Prepare for physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially.. BUt if you becomed abuse, please take a time to think if you love yourself if you love yourself you don't let anyone even your partner underestimate you either abuse you for sexually emotionally physically FIGHT FOR WHAT IS RIGHT.. Don't be into a cycle of abuse.
I know I'm too young, I don't have any experience I know what is right, what are the limitation we have a subject before in psychology so I have idea anyway....in the end its up to you.. How you look at the events of life what action you take to allow you to live the life you perhaps once only dream of.
I'm 20 years of age , I'm NBSB never been kiss never been touch.. It doesn't mean I'm ugly nor choosy.. I think I have not found the right person... And IM NOT EXPERIENCING to fall inlove with somebody.. Maybe I'm a late bloomer.. I believed in GOd perfect time. I will meet the right person for me If I met him I will know he is the one IM looking for..however Im not in a hurry I know I'm still young besides I know there's more important something to do in my life like how to get a good job, go to abroad, bonding with my family.. Ha ha.. Time will come. Thanks for all the comment I appreciate muuaahh. Godbless
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