What attract YOU MOST
_Do you look for physical appearance??1. Is it fair or tan color
2. Is it small or tall in height
3. Is it educated or not
_do you look it into a lifestyle???
1.is it smoker/drinker or do u prefer for non smker/drinker
2. Is it have a family history or not
3. Is it gambling/addict or what.
_do u look it into a personality???
_Above all
ACCEPTANCE is the key..
1. If you look it into a appearance maybe now you enjoying your partner as a youthful.. But time will come you will grow old together your fair smooth skin becomed wrinkled and dry, maybe now you attractived to her/his height but time will come your good posture become not good anymore
2. Maybe now you enjoying your both lifestyle drink smoker having a social life but time will come who knows someday you will have a disease like emphysema, liver of diseased and others
3. Maybe now you enjoying your partner to have a good attitude becaused you believed but as a years goes by due to the circumstances cannot be prevented such as unfaithful, lust, social lifestyle or maybe disease such as alzeimer dis. Parkinson and etc...
Above this all will you accept her/his??? Will you understand and care to him/her after all
you need to admit that beauty is passing look can be deceiving, personality can changed wealth is fading away, health can take you away So accept and understand your partner
remember when you decided to settle down you vow in church for richer and for poorer through sickness and health till death do us part ..
So before you go for marriage get a marriage counselling. Prepare for physically, emotionally, spiritually and financially.. BUt if you becomed abuse, please take a time to think if you love yourself if you love yourself you don't let anyone even your partner underestimate you either abuse you for sexually emotionally physically FIGHT FOR WHAT IS RIGHT.. Don't be into a cycle of abuse.
I know I'm too young, I don't have any experience I know what is right, what are the limitation we have a subject before in psychology so I have idea anyway....in the end its up to you.. How you look at the events of life what action you take to allow you to live the life you perhaps once only dream of.
Comments (3)
You are not too young to make these comments listed above based upon observation. Intelligence is a great gift.
Men are not looking for beach babes. They are looking for mates based upon compatibility. Physical attraction is a factor; not the only factor. Many beautiful women are not intelligent. Their interests are narrow and superficial.
So if your partner love you then will accept you like who you are, not try to change you like miss world or change of your like cos something he/she likes.
Thus saying, physical attraction is nice, but emotional attraction is way nicer.