am i man hater.?

One of my friend call me "man hater" because I dont have a bf.
If i dont like a guy. I tell them. Im outspoken i tell what i want.. When i see guy flirting me or show some motives. I frankly say: sori Im not interested. I dunno why. Usually some of girls happy when they know someone interested to them. But me. Im irritated when i see guy or if someone interested to me. I find it they are not sincere. They are just arrogant thinking all girls are easy to get. When they get it what they want to a girl they go away.
One of my friend told me. Why dont u try to have flirt with a guy. I sigh and told Im waiting for mr. Right. Then she ask me. When he will come? I smile back to her and said. I have faith there still a guy who is sincere and know what true love is all about. When i met him i will know he is the one im looking for. She asked again, But what if u will met him.. But that guy cant love u in return. I look her into his eyes. And said im not expecting anymore or anything to a guy it will hurt u more and it will end up to nothing
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Comments (13)

its better to try and fail,
than fail to try.
I personally love men along with all of the crazy drama they bring alongmumbling blah blah
Crazy? lana did you call my name?

rowdycool
Give Love a chance wine
Better to have loved and lost,but never lost your love.Chin up he will be along soon!hug bouquet
Agree with Partycolor..

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I don't think your a man hater. I think you are just being cautious because you don't want to be with a player and get used and hurt. I think you should keep an open mind though because one of these times a guy might flirt with you that really is a good guy who is sincere. He could be your Mr. Right but if you are closed off then you will never know. Take time to know him and see . You don't have to rush things. If you feel he's a player then move on.

teddybear
u need to let go.... flip the page, start all over again ... yeah easier said than done but u ought to, so quit complaining and start working!

Luck!
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Theres nothing wrong with that boo but your friend has a point what if he doesn't love or like you the same..It does happen like that sometimes.smitten devil
If you keep turning them away you might be turning away Mr Right without knowing you are doing it. Sometimes it takes a little time to know the person
u just hate the one who doesn't correspond ur feeling. And u think u fall in love always with the wrong one.
If u have a male friend in ur group of usual friends, u do not hate him, because u dont love him, although he may feel for u... and u don t know this because u look far.
No written rules in Love. The only absolute thing is that everything is relative. That s why my opinion can be wrong ;)
no cardio your not a man hater..you just want the right man to fall for, not some player..
ya the players can be obvious in their fake compliments and also it is true once they get what they want, they dont want you anymore..no one should tell you what to do or who to feel something for..in my opinion it is better to be safe than sorry.
trust no man untill he has proven his love with his actions and has dated you for a long enough time..otherwise if you fall for the lies and games then you are allowing them to be their victim.
everyone is a victim and a sinner
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