i have been talkin to this guy for a lil while , wel he told me he wasnt ready to commit to anyone yet cause he has alot on his mind and his ex cheatd on him . he was married to her. he says he dnt want to be hurt no more. wel he likes me and everythin but i stoppd talkin to him after he told me this, jus cause i wantd to give him space to deal with whatever he was goin threw. i realy thought i would not hear from him again. tonight he sends me a msg askin me why i stoppd talkin to him. he says he is ready now to open up to me. it has only been like a week since i stoppd talkin to him. anyway i was wonderin if u think he is worried he was gona lose a great girl? (me) wel it jus came across that way to me cause its only been like a week it jus seems like he got ready real quick ya knw.
i notice the more i push a guy or bug him bout his feelins the more he resists so i did the oposite in this case cause i realy do like this guy alot, it seems that it is goin in my favor?
i am wonderin how u make someone see u r not goin to hurt them like the rest ? do u think people should be friends first for awhile so the person wil gain your trust ? i dnt see any other way. i dnt believe tellin someone u wont hurt them is any help i believe u must show them your true colors but for some reason people dnt want to wait to see how someone wil treat them they r always in a rush . i guess people have to choose to trust when they feel they r ready to .
wel i try and i try maybe it is jus me cause everyone i date is a lyin cheater maybe i dnt knw how to pick guys cause they all have suckd so far. i mean i have learnd a few things from them. some had good quailties and bad ones . one taught me to never date a lyin cheater but i did once again. but even tho i did i now reconize the signs of when its time for me to get out of the relationship. the biggest thing ive learnd is to never listen to what a man tels u. u must listen to your own inner voice that is screamin at u to leave or that voice in the back of your head sayin this wrong . i have listen to man til he broke my heart when we could have remaind friends. do not listen to a man or anyone for that matter u need to trust your intution and your gut feelins. i believe i wil go throw heartache again but least i have learnd and experienced enough to knw its time to hit the road. and ladys ive never been pysically abused but i wish women would relize once a man hits u the first time u need to leave and once a cheater always a cheater. a man does not love u by his words a man loves u by his actions. i heard somewhere when someone shows u who they r listen. if they r mean then they r mean if they r abusive then they r abusive . listen to them the first time when they tel u who they r. i knw women believe if a man is hateful and jealous he loves u no he does not. women love attention from a man in anyway we love to be told dnt wear this or askd when we r comin home cause it means he " loves us so much " . love is never hurtful. yes we can forgive but there is a line between ok and too far. and never let a man make u believe u dnt love him if u dnt stay cause he is abusive or cheatin or anythin like that cause it is a game to make u feel bad. anyway those r my thoughts , please share yours thank u.
wel i try and i try maybe it is jus me cause everyone i date is a lyin cheater maybe i dnt knw how to pick guys cause they all have suckd so far. i mean i have learnd a few things from them. some had good quailties and bad ones . one taught me to never date a lyin cheater but i did once again. but even tho i did i now reconize the signs of when its time for me to get out of the relationship. the biggest thing ive learnd is to never listen to what a man tels u. u must listen to your own inner voice that is screamin at u to leave or that voice in the back of your head sayin this wrong . i have listen to man til he broke my heart when we could have remaind friends. do not listen to a man or anyone for that matter u need to trust your intution and your gut feelins. i believe i wil go throw heartache again but least i have learnd and experienced enough to knw its time to hit the road. and ladys ive never been pysically abused but i wish women would relize once a man hits u the first time u need to leave and once a cheater always a cheater. a man does not love u by his words a man loves u by his actions. i heard somewhere when someone shows u who they r listen. if they r mean then they r mean if they r abusive then they r abusive . listen to them the first time when they tel u who they r. i knw women believe if a man is hateful and jealous he loves u no he does not. women love attention from a man in anyway we love to be told dnt wear this or askd when we r comin home cause it means he " loves us so much " . love is never hurtful. yes we can forgive but there is a line between ok and too far. and never let a man make u believe u dnt love him if u dnt stay cause he is abusive or cheatin or anythin like that cause it is a game to make u feel bad. anyway those r my thoughts , please share yours thank u.
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it seems like we r all lookin for the same thing. not everyone but most of us. so why r we failin to love each other ? it is such a mystery to me how there r so many people in the world yet we r all single lookin for the " one " 
it sure as hell stumps the hell outa me.
