attention ladies

wel i try and i try maybe it is jus me cause everyone i date is a lyin cheater maybe i dnt knw how to pick guys cause they all have suckd so far. i mean i have learnd a few things from them. some had good quailties and bad ones . one taught me to never date a lyin cheater but i did once again. but even tho i did i now reconize the signs of when its time for me to get out of the relationship. the biggest thing ive learnd is to never listen to what a man tels u. u must listen to your own inner voice that is screamin at u to leave or that voice in the back of your head sayin this wrong . i have listen to man til he broke my heart when we could have remaind friends. do not listen to a man or anyone for that matter u need to trust your intution and your gut feelins. i believe i wil go throw heartache again but least i have learnd and experienced enough to knw its time to hit the road. and ladys ive never been pysically abused but i wish women would relize once a man hits u the first time u need to leave and once a cheater always a cheater. a man does not love u by his words a man loves u by his actions. i heard somewhere when someone shows u who they r listen. if they r mean then they r mean if they r abusive then they r abusive . listen to them the first time when they tel u who they r. i knw women believe if a man is hateful and jealous he loves u no he does not. women love attention from a man in anyway we love to be told dnt wear this or askd when we r comin home cause it means he " loves us so much " . love is never hurtful. yes we can forgive but there is a line between ok and too far. and never let a man make u believe u dnt love him if u dnt stay cause he is abusive or cheatin or anythin like that cause it is a game to make u feel bad. anyway those r my thoughts , please share yours thank u.